why does it hard so mad?
By MeganJones
@MeganJones (29)
United States
November 17, 2008 10:57am CST
I am 20 years old and me and my husband broke up i dont no if we are taking a brake or if we are done for goood . he wont call me or even come see are kids. so i take all of his things to his mom .was that the right thing to do .i cant stop crying i dont no why he wouldnt call me or come see are kids why do you think he is doing this to me and my kids
4 responses
@MeganJones (29)
• United States
17 Nov 08
yes i am 20 years old and i have two great kids that i take care of everyday by myself . i dont no why you are sorry for me i wanted kids and i love being a mom. so dont be sorry for me
@stormygrl (761)
• United States
17 Nov 08
Hard to really say not knowing what type of guy he normally is or what kind of problems,financial or otherwise.Maybe he just got scared of responsibilities or is he normally self centered?To not bother to see your kids is bad enough and why guys think they should be able to walk away from their own kids is amazing!They mostly all put their self first,if he can't bother to explain then you're better off without him,sorry.
@cryw0lf (1302)
• United Kingdom
17 Nov 08
First up- Do you have any idea why you both decided to break up / take-a-break?
I suggest you **DO NOT!** take his things to his mothers, because then he can just disappear out of your life. Let him come to you, to collect his things- by then he may be a little calmer...
Until people know why... we cant really help.
There is one way to stop the pain. Take a deep deep deep breath, and try to shut out your emotions. Be strong, and answers will come.
@PrincessKitten (790)
• United States
17 Nov 08
It's not about you or the kids, it's about him.
You're 20 but how old is he? If he's under 30, he's probably trying to live his life and get his partying out of the way. If he's 29 or 30, he's realized that he's getting old and there's a lot more life to lead than being tied down with kids.
Go ahead, talk to his mother, she's a woman. If she's any kid of decent woman she will love the kids and give you moral support but she can't do much about her son.
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