what would you do ?

That is horrible, definetly talk to him about it. My brother had a similar situation with his now ex-girlfriend when they were on a "break". There were some inappropriate pictures of her and some guys that were very suggestive. He confronted her and she realized she the single life and they perted ways. A picture can say a thousand words, but its better to hear it from him and not make assumptions.

I think that you should leave them both alone!

This woman is not your friend. First off if your husband was not home that night just where was he? Did he ever tell you where he was? Have you asked him? Show him the picture and message that is on her page and ask him about it. This woman may have got his picture by snagging it from your page and is just trying to start some drama or you have a cheating husband and a ho ho ho for a friend. Don't put up with a cheater and ditch this woman as the bad news she is but before you do anything rash confront your husband with the picture and message to get your answers first. He may not be guilty and she may be trying to ruin your marriage. There are women out there who get off on ruining a marriage and once they break up the marriage will have nothing to do with the guy. It's just a power play to them to break up something they don't have.

hello my fellow myLotter, you need to send her a message asking her how she met your hubby. how long have they been seeing each other. then ask her do she know he is married because 9 times out of 10 they don't tell women that they are married. with the information she gives you confront your husband about it. i hope you can get through this. do you always not come home?

well its obvious she wanted you to see it!! I wouldn't be calling her a friend. I would confront him about it and wouldn't even talk to her. To me it definitly sounds like he cheated on you. Could be wrong, but that's what I think and if that is the case I would be filing for divorice!! I don't let men do that to me. To me if they love you they wouldn't even think of other women. Plus for him not to come home and not tell you why or were he was. Thats not really being a husband is it?

You need answers for sure! Do you think that this 'friend' wanted you to see this? I would definately share this info with my husband and expect an honest explanation of what was going on. This way you can make a decision on how you will move forward. If you don't have trust in a marriage, then you really don't have a marriage. So sorry this happened to you and I wish you good luck with this.

I would flip out, but I am kind of crazy like that. You seriously should say something to him. There is no way that I would stay in a relationship with someone who had cheated on me. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Even if it was "innocent" he still lied to you about it so it really isn't.

I would confront him about it. I would also message her on myspace, and ask her what happened. I am one who can not tolerate cheating in a relationship. I think it is the meanest thing any person can do to someone. I hope the best for you in this. There really isn't much more advice I feel I can give you. If you need any however, just ask.