Budgeting

United States
November 17, 2008 11:27am CST
Do you ever stop to think about the things you can cut back on? Do you try to eliminate bills? Have you recently gotten rid of an extra bill like cable or cell phone in order to free up some funds? We definitly have our bills down to a minimum. We pay for the house, the home phone, the internet (okay, so that's an extra, but it pays for itself from what I earn online), the power, and the car insurance. We don't pay for cable and we don't own cell phones. If we have a rough week, which usually only happens when I'm trying to pay for extra things, like my kids activities, or we have a high power bill or something, then usually we'd cut back on our groceries or our "fun" spending such as eating out or going out. I know I can cut back on the fun spending... and trust me we have gotten better at that over the years. At least now the bills are paid before we have fun, it used to be the other way around, lol. Sometimes I can cut back on the groceries, but I rarely spend over $200 on my family of 7, and that included shampoo and soap etc, cleaning supplies, pet supplies, and formula and diapers. I could also cut out the internet.. but that's not going to happen, and it only costs me $30 a month anyways. Other than that all my bills are necessities and can't be eliminated. What about you? Do you have a bill that could be eliminated? Would you consider eliminating it if money was too tight?
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18 responses
• United States
18 Nov 08
We try to do this as much as possible. We have a cell phone, but it is a pay by the minute one. We get a new $30 card, which is for 300 minutes, every 3 months. We'd get one for less but they don't have them, we just don't use the phone that much. We don't have cable or satellite. We haven't bought a convertor box for the t.v. yet either. We have a home phone and internet services bundled. We keep our thermostat between 65 and 67 degrees and we live in Michigan. We bundle up to keep warm, with electric blankets made available on the main floor of the house. We buy dvd's either on sale or from the $5 bin at Wal-Mart. We don't eat out but for once every couple of weeks or so, and then it is usually fast food, not a super expensive meal. We eat at home most times, and I make quite a bit from scratch as it is healthier and cheaper. We had a garden this past year and will be doing so again next year. For Christmas this year, we are using my husband's bonus and that is it. I am waiting until he gets it to go shopping, and he'll get it either the Friday before Christmas or the Wednesday before.
• United States
18 Nov 08
All great ideas, but man I'd be going crazy if I had to wait that long to do my shopping. I'd always be freaking out that we won't get the money and not have anything for Christmas. I hate that feeling. I'm doing a layaway this year, so most of my shopping is done.
@mykmari_08 (2464)
• Philippines
18 Nov 08
Ever since I was a school girl, I guess my parents and guardians inculcated in me the value of spending wisely. Modesty aside, I always returned any loose change I receive every time my elders send me to errands requiring money; in particular, buying things for them. I don't wait for any monetary fee because I know I shouldn't ask for anything in return. Until I started working after graduation, I brought this value together with me. In fact, I never experienced being out of cash because aside from budgeting my salary, I also had a savings account where I deposited any excess funds out of my pay. When emergency comes either for expenses in school or needs of relatives, I found it easier to extend a helping hand because I had something to spare. But things have really changed ever since I got married more than five years ago. Honestly, I don't have any savings at present, either on hand or in any local bank. What I only have for my disposal is the net take home pay I get every month which is approximately six thousand pesos or 120 dollars. From this, I still have to pay the monthly rent which amounts to 60 dollars, aside from my daily public transportation fare, expenses for food and utilities. I couldn't possibly cut back on any expenses because we don't have a computer at home, so there's no internet service. You might be wondering where I'm typing right now; this is the computer assigned to me here in the office. Also, we don't have a telephone and cable connection; so I could say that what we have are only the bare essentials. And if this still isn't enough, we have a substantial amount of monetary obligations with various individuals, loan agencies, credit card companies, and pawnshops. Hopefully, we'll be able to fully pay all of these by next year and save some for our daughter's future education.
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@1grnthmb (2055)
• United States
25 Nov 08
Our money is so tight that several months ago we had to cut every thing we could. Our utility bill was just ridiculous this summer. We did not do anything different but they raised the rates. So we had to cut out every thing we could. We kept the internet and cut our Direct TV to just basic programming. I dropped my cell phone. It basically was for emergencies anyway. We managed to cut about $280 dollars from our costs. Food was even cut back. We buy mostly generic/store brand foods and only spend about $200 a month the feed two adults and three teenagers. It is nice that the price of gas is coming down now. It allows us to buy more food.
• United States
25 Nov 08
I would love to know how 5 people survive on $200 a month. I can't live on much less than $200 a week, and I only have 2 more mouths to feed than you do.
@Ithink (9980)
• United States
18 Nov 08
I have already gotten rid of everything that was needed, all my magazine subscription, 2 book clubs (kept one since I still have to buy 2 books), cell phones have been gone for awhile (wish we had this one back in the winter driving weather and to check on hubby at work.) We do have dishnetwork but without it we get no TV at all and I think the kids and hubby would then drive me nuts! LOL! Internet and home phone we have. My phone and Internet costs us a little over 40 a month. We have a mortgage, outside wood furnace payment, 2 credit cards, house insurance, vehicle insurance (both taken down as much as we can) We do have 2 vehicles but only use the truck when getting wood. We dont go out the only fun thing for me is I get 10 dollars on Sat. to do womens pool league, which I was going to quit but hubby said no way. He said it is the only break I get out that is fun. I do use coupons when it is for a good buy or something that we normally use. I wish we had stores around here that did the double coupons but we dont. I spend on the avererge weekely about 40.00 on weekly things like diapers, wipes, shampoos, cleaners, ect., For groceries it comes to about 700 a month. Milk and juice kills us the most with 5 kids. Right now I put anything extra on a credit card bill. When we get income tax it will be spent on mostly bills and paying off one of the credit card bills totally. Then that money will go on the last credit card bill. I HATE BILLS! LOL!
@Ithink (9980)
• United States
19 Nov 08
We do get WIC, I dont know how you can get it to last that long! It doesnt happen in this house at all. That and the juice between even the 2 babes goes so fast. I dont buy juice for the teens either unless it is a treat. I also buy our meats in bulk, along with rice and a few other things. It really does help.
• United States
18 Nov 08
Yes you need some fun now and then, and a pool league is great for you to get out and be around other people. I need something like that myself. I spend my $10 a week on coffee drinks while I'm doing my shopping, lol. You should look into WIC if you have a child under 5. I get it for my toddler, and the milk lasts us the whole month for the whole family. The juice doesn't, but I don't buy juice for the older kids, they get sugar free kool aid. So long as they eat enough fruit, they don't need juice. $700 on groceries is a great price for 5 kids. After formula and diapers and such, that's probably how much I spend. I also buy meat in bulk, that saves a lot too.
• United States
20 Nov 08
Our juice does go fast, and that's usually just by 1 baby, the littlest doesn't drink it that often. The milk lasts only because the baby is still on formula, and the older kids don't drink much of it, usually just a bit in their cereal. Otherwise they mostly drink water or the sugar free kool aid. They have milk at school and get other calcium sources like cheese and yogurt and such, so they don't need to drink too much milk.
@gemini_rose (16264)
20 Nov 08
I was in so much debt at one point in my life I despaired of ever being any other way. I only ever wanted to be comfortable, to just be able to buy clothes and girly things when I wanted, clothes for the kids, to have a bit of money for a bit of fun, but I never thought it would happen I just could not get it right. Over the last few years I have learnt how to budget money I learnt that I could not have savings until debts were cleared so that is what I did all last year we had no spare money because I put it all in to clearing debts off. Towards the end of last year I did it and I then decided at the start of this year to set budgets for everything which I have gradually been able to do, I then try to beat my budgets by getting everything for less than the budget I have set so that the spare money then goes into the savings pots I have set up as bank accounts. It has been hard work made harder by this blasted credit crunch/recession but I am determined to beat that, I now need to organise myself into selling off the things in the house that are just lying around to bring a bit more money in.
• Estonia
22 Nov 08
That is weird how people live like this in your country. I am now 24 and I still have nothing which was taken in credit or leased, because I know how hard it is to spend years giving your money away to get rid of those depts. I simply do not have a car, do not have a laptop, do not have an apartment. I travel by buses and rent an apartment (because renting is not more expensive than paying out the credit), and working and studying hard waiting for the times when I can start earning enough just to buy these things. But of course it is easy for me now because I am not married, don't have kids and I am not planning to stay in my country. for family people it is not really possible to live like this...
@gemini_rose (16264)
20 Nov 08
I was 19 when I started wracking up debts, I am 35 now and all the debts were cleared last year, maybe around the beginning of it. It took a lot of hard work and a lot of going without stuff but finally there seems to be some light at the end of the tunnel. I tell you anyone who thinks it is easy to run a home and family plus keep the financial side in order does not know the half of it. I really never want to go back to that dark place ever. It takes a long time to get sorted, but you will do it just keep doing what you are doing you seem to have a pretty good head on your shoulders where your finances and everything are concerned!
• United States
20 Nov 08
I started to pay on some of our debts, but it seemed so hopeless. We are in so much debt, and some of it is over absolutely ridiculous things. I truly believe it will be like 7 years before we have decent credit. That's how long it takes for things to come off your credit report. We have at least gotten better about not creating any new debts.
@camomom (7535)
• United States
17 Nov 08
Yes, I re-evaluate our bills every other month and get rid of things. I have my Netflix account on hold and cancelled my blockbuster account. We also cancelled our XM Radio. I just tried to lower our car insurance but we already have the minimum coverage. We are cancelling our home phone. We skimp on heat and electric as much as we can to save. We are pretty much at the bottom. We have no "fun" money or grocery money.(I get food stamps)We do still apy for cable and internet but we wouldn't have TV without cable and we need the internet to work. I could cut back on cable if I had too, but that's all that's left to cut.
• United States
17 Nov 08
Cable was always the first thing we cut out when things got tight. We'd usually get it shut off towards the end of winter while catcing up on our heating bill, then we'd get it turned back on towards the end of summer because we got bored when the weather got cooler out. But then we realized everytime we got cable back, we'd get the extra packages that we didn't need. We'd get HBO and all the on demand channels, and the DVR, then we'd end up getting pay per views. So our simple, cheap cable bill would end up being like $75 a month. The last time we had cable turned off, it didn't fully turn off, so we have all the channels, but don't get a bill. Works for me, lol. But it sounds to me like you do have "fun" money, you just spend it in different ways. We could never afford a cell phone.. I suppose we could if we didn't use our spare money for fast food and stuff though. But the home phone is $25 a month and I can't find a cell phone that cheap, plus I need the home phone for the DSL anyways. We've never even looked into XM Radio. We have our Blockbuster account, but cancelled the Netflix before we started that. But, even though you're cancelling these things... I'd categerize them as "fun" stuff, just a different kind of fun. I wish we could get food stamps. Can you believe they turned us down because we make $2 over the limit? How crazy is that! At least I get WIC though and the kids get free lunch. That helps a ton.
• United States
17 Nov 08
Oh trust me if I could get him to cut back his hours, I would, in a heartbeat. But he's salary, so it wouldn't make a difference either way. Stinks for us. Our cable internet is a minimum of $50 a month, but the DSL I pay for is only $30. I could get it even cheaper if I wanted, but I'm fine with this. I think the cheaper is a bit slower, and I like it fast.
@camomom (7535)
• United States
17 Nov 08
All my family lives out of state so my long distance was more expensive than using a cellphone. I also pay a set amount monthly instead of trying to pay a different amount every month depending on my long distance use. Cable internet is cheaper in my area then DSL. We have WIC also and his son gets free school lunch too. He only gets free lunch when he's at our house and has to pay when he's at his mom's. I can believe they would turn you down for that, they would where I live too. Have your hubby cut back his hours if he can. It would definately be worth it. They just changed the guidelines too so maybe you should apply again. They raised the income levels a lot.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
17 Nov 08
we are finding it sort of difficult right now, we do have cable and the internet but no cell phones either. we try and do something 'fun' about once a month but since i am not making any money right now (i am was on sick leave and my ei ran out but i will be going back to work probably next week), so that will help but we are a bit behind in our bills right now.
• United States
17 Nov 08
When we were paying for cable, it was always the first thing cut when money got tight. We'd have it shut off at least once a year, usually just before summer while we caught up on our past due winter bills. Then stupidly we'd have it turned back on in the fall and get behind again.
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
17 Nov 08
I want to eliminate cable altogether but my husband doesn't want to. I suggested going basic cable but he might lose out on his sports channels. We are going to cut our landline since we both have cell phones too. We have already trimmed down our grocery bill and even though petrol has gone down, he is now using the car because they offered him his own free parking at work. I didn't agree with it because it means that he loses his monthly metro tickets of $100 (paid by the company) if he takes the car park. He thinks the cost wouldn't differ either way but I think otherwise. He is pushing me to work full-time (I currently work part time) to cover the expenses he doesn't want to eliminate, but I'm concerned for my 6 yr old son. It's going to cost to get a babysitter or put him in an afterschool program, and he thinks by me getting a full time job, that should cover the costs with some left over. I don't know.
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
18 Nov 08
I also spend a lot less when I'm home too. My husband does travel a lot and I have noticed that I do manage to save rather than spend when he's here.
• United States
17 Nov 08
That's a shame that you two can't see eye to eye on your finances. My husband gets that way from time to time. I spend very little during the week while he's at work. I spend a lot more when he's home. He's usually the one who decides we're going to have fast food, and we're going to go out somewhere. The only bills I insisted on were the internet and when we bought his computer we had to make monthly payments for a year. Other than that, I don't spend a whole lot, unless it's to get my kids into their activities.
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
17 Nov 08
I don't really watch much television, but the kids do. I can't really cut that out. I make a lot of money online, so that one is not going anywhere. Other than that there is not really much that I spend money on that I could cut down except buying things for the kids they don't really need.
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
17 Nov 08
I have been much better about it lately.
• United States
17 Nov 08
We used to do that when the twins were younger. We'd almost never leave walmart without a new toy for each of them. We ended up having to break that habit, because I could see the kids were getting spoiled. Now they only get what they need, unless it's a holiday.
• Estonia
17 Nov 08
I do not watch TV, because I usually get all the info, news and entertainment from the internet, so I have not had cable TV at home for 6 years already. Also in my country it is actually cheaper to use mobile phones rather than home phones. And when I do shopping, I really try to check and compare prices in order not to accidentally waste some extra 10 bucks when I can actually save them instead. And my whole family lives like this, which is quite smart I think and in the end of each month really helps us to stand strong against the inflation and the crisis.
• United States
17 Nov 08
I do all my grocery shopping at Walmart super center, I've found that to be far cheaper than any other store. I also shop at a wholesale club and buy in bulk, and that saves money on meat. My phone bill is only $25 a month, and I've never seen a cellphone that cheap, but I need my home phone anyways for my DSL, so I couldn't get it turned off without switching my internet to cable which is $50 a month.
• Estonia
17 Nov 08
Yeah, I know that usually it is quite cheap to have a home phone. It may sound srange, however in my country mobile phone services have become so much cheaper than home phones that most of the families have switched to cellular phones only. Thats weir..I still do not understand how home phone calls can be more expensive than some mobile phone calls. I think everyone has a mobile phone in Estonia, some people even have 2-3 mobiles with different networks.
@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
18 Nov 08
Hi Katsmeow! I think this problem of budgeting is way more common these days. I hear about it all the time and of course I do it with my family too. We just recently moved into a new house November 1st of this year because we had such a bad mold issue at the old house. It was a dangerous situation. In the summertime a friend and I opened a daycare and that helped my family a lot with extra cash and I even was able to add a couple more bills a month to our budget. Now that my friend and I decided to close the daycare that money is gone so it is a big tighter and it's going to be even more tighter with my hubby who is going to be getting laid off of work in a couple weeks and christmas around the corner. I'm just preying for a miracle! Every October I get a raise from work but this year it hasn't kicked in yet and apparently my job is giving us a retro check from October 1st on. I'm still waiting for that. As of right now our utilities that we cannot live without are rent, hydro, gas, water. I am also stuck in a three year contract with a cellphone plan and also we had to finance new couches because our old couches had mold all over them from the old house. They were ruined badly. We also have our phone and internet. Since we've been here at the new house we've managed to live without cable or satalite and it's not so bad. The internet sure can give me those sources. Have a great day
@Bluepatch (2476)
• Trinidad And Tobago
17 Nov 08
Budgeting is a bane. Have you ever heard that ? Right now there must be thousands of people doing this. Here in Trinidad electricity bills went up about twice in the past year and when I budget now its not to buy cheaper its what to do without. I've found that even then its sometimes a struggle between needs. Like what medecine you can do without or whether to learn to like black coffee because you can do without milk. Its a hell of a thing, not having enough money. Last week only on one day, Thursday, was I able to eat a full place of food. All the other days it was bread and something or pies or a small can of uncooked vienna sausages. This is the life honey ! As we all are having it !
• Estonia
19 Nov 08
omg. I pity you guys. People in my area in Eastern Europe are also complaining about life level going down but it is still more or less fine here - people still can afford to live normally, and most people don't really seriously save money on food.
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
18 Nov 08
Is that $200 a week for groceries or $200 a month. If you are only spending $200 a month for a family of 7 I want your secret. I pay between $160 to $200 per week on groceries including soap, and shampoo and stuff. First of all our cars are paid off, so we have no car payments. We also have a high deductible on our insurance, and that saves us a lot of money. My husband has a cell phone but his work pays for it. I have cell phone but it is a prepay phone. I only have $20.00 every three months, so it is really cheap, and if I have an emergency I have it. I don't chit chat on it. It is only for emergencies, and quick little things like getting directions or letting my husband know where I am. I try to combine all my errands and do them on one day so I limit the amount of driving I do. We have our internet and our cable with the same company so we save a little bit there, even though it is still pretty pricey. If my husband were to lose his job cable would be the first to go. The internet pays for itself like you said with the money I earn on line. We almost never make long distance phone calls. I also call my phone company every three months or so to talk about how to reduce my bill. They always find someway to lower it, but it tends to creep back up after a few months so I have to keep calling them. We get our DVD's from the library. We don't turn on the heat or the air conditioning until things become completely unbearable.
• United States
18 Nov 08
No that's $200 a week, but it includes everything we need at the store like soap and cleaning supplies. It also includes baby formula and diapers. I have 1 on formula and 2 in diapers. I buy in bulk mostly, that's how I keep the cost down. $20 worth of meat at the wholesale club usually gives us 3 dinners.
• United States
18 Nov 08
One way I found to save a lot of money is by clipping coupons and then going on double or triple coupon day at the store. Usually I can find coupons for items that are already on sale. This saves me almost fifty dollars a month. I also make sure all the lights are off when we are not in a room and a huge help is shutting off your computer when you are not using it.
• United States
18 Nov 08
I don't use coupons for 4 reasons. 1. I usually forget I have them even when I do clip them 2. I have to spend money on the paper in order to get the coupons 3. To use the coupon you have to buy more of the product than you need which is a waste 4. Buying generic brands is cheaper than using coupons I do all my grocery shopping at Super Walmart, and that saves me probably $100 a week. Plus I buy things in bulk at the wholesale club, whatever I don't use I freeze, and that is a huge help as well.
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
18 Nov 08
We have more unecessary stuff in our budget now than we did a year ago. Last year, we just wouldn't spend anything on entertainment, we spent less on groceries, etc. We've relaxed a bit this year because my husband makes more now. We should get back to being more vigilant until we finish paying of our debts. We could eliminate a lot of small expenses and cut back on our grocery budget as well as cut down our cell phone bills.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
18 Nov 08
We do try to cut cost also, cause of everything is going up. We try to cut going out and buying things that is necessary. We just rather to stay home then going out often having dinner or luch outside. Even our load for our cell phone we don't load when it' is necessary to call or urgent that is the only time we load for our cell phones.God bless!
@kylanie (1205)
• United States
18 Nov 08
You are right there I used to have fun before bills got paid and now we pay all the bills first except we have cable and phone and internet but it's all combined some things we get free samples of to use from different sites like walmart.com and other things we try to fit in a budget but we always after we pay the bills say dang we could have saved here and there because you do't have as much as you would like to have left over in the end but we always try and make it. Thanks for the discussion.
• Philippines
18 Nov 08
that's financial planning...proper budgeting, eliminating something for a necessity or a preference. Well that's very good and it is worthy to be followed. I will also do that coz my mom does too. For me, I save a fixed amount of my money in an insurance and the rest I save in a bank and the others I spend for my personal needs. I am planning to help mom with the bills soon.