What is the true friendship?
By hejianyuan
@hejianyuan (7)
China
November 17, 2008 12:04pm CST
A friend in need is a a friend indeed. I agree with this idiom very much. But in our daily life, do you have such kind of true friends? I find that I am always kind to my friends and often lend my hand to them when they need me or they need any help, they will come to me and let me know. But when I am in need, few of them will help me out even those I often help them.
So, now, I often ask myself, there is little reward for your kindness to your friends, should I continue to ofter my favor when next time they come to ask for help? Sometimes, I often think that, my friendship is built on nothing, but giving.
what is your opinion and have you ever had this kind of experience on your friendship? if yes, how do you handle it?
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3 responses
@23uday (2997)
• India
17 Nov 08
Hi frnds,
A true frndship never breaks forever.
a frnship is like an autograph keep it in your like a photograph.
frndship is a thing which can do anything.
a frnship is a garden of roses are frnds and thorns are enemies.
frndship never ends for a certain period of time it long taste till frnds are there.
gift to our life frndship is a rainbow between two hearts.
f-feeling of heart
r-rememberable
i-impression
e-emotional feeling
n-nature of land
d-doing good
s-selfless
h-having understanding mind
i-impression
p-peacefulness.
@saracath (18)
• United States
17 Nov 08
I think that is a good thought that true friendships never break forever, but I really don't think it's true either. I have found that in my life I have had many friendships that change with time. My friends from my childhood were very real and I think true. However, as I grew up my friends changed. I had different friends for different phases of my life. As I moved into a new phase of my life, or a friend moved into a new phase of thiers, I made new friends. My old friends drifted out and the new ones became the focus. My memories of my old friends though are very good ones. I would not rate one phase of friendship as better or worse than another, just different. I also don't think that's a bad thing. Some people have the same friends for life and that, I am sure, is a good thing for them. It just wasn't meant to be that way for me. I moved from friends in high school, to friends in college. Then after getting married there were other new friends. After getting divorces and starting a new life in a new place there have been other new friends again. I treasure the memories of all the old friends, but it is the currant friends that I look to for support and companionship. Will there be another phase in my life? Right now I don't see that happening, but who knows what tomorrow holds for us? If it happens, then I will be happy to have new people in my life that enrich it.
@suchithra85 (29)
• India
17 Nov 08
Some friends are more helpful for us. they do anything for friendship. They are good friends forever. they are known each other. they will do anything for each other. at the time of emergency we can contact our close friends than relatives. true friends are always with us. if there is any problem they are with us.
@sktekweb (277)
• India
17 Nov 08
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