Have you ever fall in love with your best friend?
By ranran
@ranran (29)
China
November 17, 2008 6:48pm CST
If you fall in love your best friend and he still considers you just dear friend? Maybe you wanna to change the way he loves you . A great example of someone trying to change for the love of a best friend is the movie my best friend's wedding. If he just want you to be his best friend, You should tell him that you like him and try your best,then let him feeling that he is a special man for you and you can give your life just for him.If it will not work at all then you must accept the truth that you are both friends forver. Ok, What about your feeling ?Do you have some more good ideas?
5 responses
@shonali (1286)
• India
5 Dec 08
oh yes i did go around with my best friend and now i totally regret it... cos know i feel that we would have been much better as best friends rather than lovers which anyways finally never worked out.....
and i lost a best friend too
you know how hard it can be to be a friend to your ex bf
but there maybe many best friends turning lovers relationships going real strong.... but its fianlly a risk cos if you do break up in the future then you do have a chance of losing your best friend too
@Rexdoron (345)
• Malaysia
5 Dec 08
ops..falling in love with bestfriend.?? hurm..i had once. things started well when we first know each other and time by time, we became closer. we shared our problems, changing opinions on even a small things, and frankly to know, we have same interests on some things. maybe i should say, a lot of things. then, i realise, i had fall in love with her, n one day, i told her - although i knew she had a bf. suprisingly, she said she love me too. i was happy for seconds before than i realise the reality. i told her to be loyal to her bf, n keep doing it; until now. erm..seems like im stupid, but i dont think i am because i know im not the best for her..
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
18 Nov 08
i never fell in love with a best friend. a best friend is more like a brother, and just wouldnt feel right to be closer.
but for some people it does happen. if the feelings are mutual, they should go for it. but if they both feel differently, they should move on. it is just not meant to be. if they force it, they will regret it. it wont work out anyway. it will be a mess.
@mamalovestoread (692)
• Canada
18 Nov 08
I have been in that situation. I was in love with my best friend and I never told him. He left the province and moved away. One night I recieved an email from him telling me that he Loved me? Whats up with that? I wish I had told him how I felt about him when he was still here! Now he is in another province with 3 kids!
I always wondered if he felt the same way but when he was here he just always refered to me as his friend!
@brandypelland (586)
• United States
18 Nov 08
i fel inlove with my best friend married him now i am divorcing him after 5 years of marrieg and 2 girls
