Has the chivalry of the first date completely disappeared??

November 17, 2008 7:10pm CST
I don't know if anyone else has experienced this lately, but I seem to keep finding that the basic rules of the first date have completely gone out of the window. I don't know how many of you have tried internet dating, but I have found time and time again they keep skipping even going for a drink, but instead just invite me over, sometimes at midnight!! And when I do actually get taken out for a drink (never dinner or lunch and I usually have to pay for my own drink) I'll get asked after about an hour if I want to go back to their house. or sometimes not even told - they'll say they know were we can go and before I know it I'm standing outside their appartment block and telling them off for thinking I'll go inside with them after knowing them for 3 hours "what kind of girl do you think I am??"!!! Now I know you're first query is going to be 'do I give the wrong impression' either in what I wear or how I act, I can honestly reply no I really don't think so. So what is a girl to do?
1 response
• United States
18 Nov 08
Internet dating isn't safe at all. In my own personal opinion, just quit looking and they'll find you. The sweet ones always do.