First love never dies -BEWARE OF FIRST LOVERS ,YOU PRESENT LOVERS
By ronnyb
@ronnyb (6113)
Jamaica
November 17, 2008 7:15pm CST
How many persons remember their first love ,many do and with almost crystal clear clarity,ask them and watch the tender expression on their face as they go back in time.Ever wondered what would have happened if you could go back in time and be with the person you first loved or if you would give the person another chance if you met them again.
I think when they say first love never dies ,this is what they are talking about,the fact that you keep this love in a special place untouched and pure .For some persons this love will never be equalled by any future love.This is possible because their first love is likely to happen when they were very young when emotions ran high and everything your partner did then was novel and amplified in your heart.Then you never had any children ,bills or credit card payments and all you had to do concentrate on was your love and you put a lot of effort into it.It was easier to make your first love work.
Should you ,a future lover be wary of all first lovers ,is it possible that you present lover will cheat with you with their first love ?.
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7 responses
@wahmivy (776)
• Philippines
19 Nov 08
I suppose your "first love" will always be special as firsts usually are, but it doesn't mean that it can never fade or die. People tend to feel bittersweet about old loves, but that sentiment usually isn't as strong as the mature and committed love married couples usually enjoy.
@Seppy1984 (2145)
• United States
18 Nov 08
Very interesting discussion, For me I don't have to worry about my present love having an afair on me with his first love. The reason for that is because his first love was me. It's a long story. Let's just put it this way when my hubby and I was 16 we had a long 1 year relationship and then things started getting rocky so we broke up and went our seperate ways and 5 years later and I having 2 children ran into my ex at the time who is my hubby now. We started talking again and in just instant seconds there was sparks just like the first time we were together. We started dating again and then it went into talking about marriage and when we found out that we were going to be having a baby we decided why wait to get married when we could do it before the baby came along. So we got married Sept.19th of 2005 and have 2 beautiful boys together and still going strong. I gotta say I'm glad that I don't have to worry about present love cheating with first love.
Happy Mylotting
@suzzy3 (8341)
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18 Nov 08
I think it like that with first everything thrill ,first car, first wage packet, first time you realised all those presents under the tree are for you at christmas, first home, there are lots of firsts and I think it should be just that first everybody knows most things get better as you experience matures, no I would not go back to that spotty lanky lad, I would rather stay with my mature loving man.xx
@JulianaRose (378)
• United States
18 Nov 08
his scares me so much, just the idea of them never leaving my head, why is it like that?
@craydog (1)
• China
18 Nov 08
My present lover is the first lover for me,but I am not the first one for her. Many times when we discussed her former lover, I always found she had some special motion on him. I understand her minds, I just think that if we are separated one day,she will miss me as she call back her former one. I tend to that we will give someone a special place in our heart if we experience many thing with true emotion!
@baba786 (19)
• India
18 Nov 08
Yes I remember my first love when i was in age of 17, the reason is why i am having more love with her - she is 5 year elder to me, she was very beautifull and good manner girl. I have expressed my love with her, but she rejected because of her age. but she loves me. I do not know where she is still I am not forgotting.
With love
m d kumar
@subha12 (18441)
• India
18 Nov 08
i had never been in love myself. But it is true that first love is very hard to forget., i have heard this many times again and again.may be it is the speacila experience for all. I think in many cases the lovers who are not the first are wary of first loves
