Single, taken, looking, or not looking?

I just got married last January and I am so happy with my married life especially now that my husband and I already have our son. I gave birth exactly two weeks ago. I think being single can be by choice. Some people think that having a partner hinders them from achieving their goals. But for some, their partners are their inspirations.

Well I am well and truly taken and happily so. I spent a lot of time in online dating sites looking for someone as I am just not into going out to bars and so on. Besides that way I got to know the mind and personality first before meeting to see if the chemistry matched. I found my partner that way and I have never been happier.

I am taken. I don't have to be in a relationship. I don't have a physical need to be in a relationship and since I am taken I am not looking. I don't have a preference either way. I guess that what I'm saying is, being in a relationship is nice, but being alone can be nice too I guess. And I feel like you do, if I were single I wouldn't be out there looking. Shouldn't people come find me? I mean, aren't I special enough? I feel like I am but I'm sure some people would beg to differ.

I'm taken and not looking. I can understand what you are saying, however the same can be said for some married people out there. They might be married, but they are still looking.

They probably should have a category called 'Not Available' so people know not to bug you. I'm married, so it doesn't affect me - but I always wonder when it says 'Miss, Ms or Mrs' - who likes to be addressed as Ms?

I have been with my artner for 18 years.We are not married but i quess we are taken.[lol]Hope we have another 18 wonderfull years.

Good theory, Sheepie. You are indeed a treasure and should be found. That is so true in life, it is the things that find you when you aren't even looking that amount to the most treasureable experiences. I am very much not single. About to celebrate my 20 year wedding anniversary. But it was not so long ago that I don't remember...... neither of us were looking at the time. We were chemistry lab partners and if we were looking for anything at all it was to not be paired up with stupid people who will make us do all the work.

taken. for 6 and 1/2 years married for 5. And i said we wouldn't last 4 months!!!LOL!!

Technically I'm single. But, I've been in the same relationship for 8 years now since he moved in with me. I have no intention of getting married though. At this point I think even if I wasn't in a relationship I wouldn't be looking. I often think its more work than its worth to keep a relationship going. Things have really changed for me in the last ten years. I divorced an overbearing dominating control freak. And then met my new guy, who is so laid back that I now find that I am the one who is the dominate one in our relationship. I make the decisions, pay the bills and so on - because he just doesn't want to be bothered with it. LOL So where as I used to be the mouse, now I'm the lioness, just as it should be for this Leo. :)

I am married now so I am taken and I am not looking.

I am not married and I am not single. I am in a relationship, with my boyfriend. In fact in a few days, on 29th, its gonna be our 5 years anniversary :)

hello Sheepie, right now i am taken and i am not looking. i don't ever look. when me and my boyfriend met i was taken my kids to the bus stop and he asked me do i braid hair and i told him no. come to find out he was my kids' friend's uncle. so we just became real good friends then we started dating. been together for six years now. happy posting!

You are young yet, you have plenty of time to plan your life and I hope you find someone who you can fall in love with and spend a happy life together. I am single but not really looking. I have been in ill health for many years which makes me rather a poor catch. If something came along I would not turn it down it would be nice to share some time with someone I like.

I am single but not neccessarily looking.. However, I am open to being found ;)

I am very taken thank you, so not single or looking or not looking. Took me years to get taken so not going to risk anything.

I am single. I am not even really looking either. Sure i do miss being in a relationship and having someone there for me but right now my life is easier with out having someone else to worry about. If someone comes along then that would be great. Until then i am not really looking and i am happy being single.

I'm Single but in a relationship right now. But I considered myself single because my boyfriend is working overseas and we are having a long distance relationship. Sometimes its hard to maintain a smooth sailing relationship especially long distance but we managed to keep it intact and hold on to each other. We trust love and respect each other so I guess thats the reason why we made it through and we are in our 5th year and 6th months anniversary tomorrow.

I am in the status which you mean. I want to be found by someone. Now I just enjoy my single life. I used to have a boyfriend. I supposed we can maintain a good relationship. But love is too complicated for me. I am too weak to bear all the sorrows and burdern when we two should face . I need to be more confident and strong to find a soul true love.

I would be considered taken. Very taken in fact, I'm married. lol. For the most part I like it but we've had a lot of ups and downs. We had a lot of problems that we've mostly worked through which is good. But, I'm still having some trouble getting over some of our worst. It'll just take time and it IS getting easier but there are times when I would rather be single again but then I would probably miss what I had. So I guess provided things only continue to improve I'd rather be taken/married then not.

single and looking, this is me. ha ha ha I don't know where to begin, well i have been separated for quite sometime and I know for whatever it is that has happened in my past, there's always a silver lining to it, God has never left my side since I came through it and I must say, people around me had help me cope up this kind of dilemma Ive been through. everything is all n the past and a new beginning is here. keep it up to people like me, keep looking there's always someone out there for us.