about leisure time

I think it can be. If the child doesn't start doing something productive on their own, is it up to the parents to push them a bit. I've noticed this difference a lot between myself and my best friend. I was constantly wanting to learn things and she just wanted to watch Disney movies and play with dolls. As a result, I might not have had as much "fun" as she says, but I certainly know a lot more. I think this is kind of useful. It's great to have fun, but fun all the time is too much. I wouldn't want to be one of those parents who pushes my kids, but I will definitely make them do something other than visit Disneyland all the time and watch movies. If they won't become interested in learning things on their own I'll expose them to various things until they pick a worthwhile hobby.

i not agree,"depend on oneself " is important to us in the future,if not have chance to live indepently,we will never to do things, we may make use of the leisure time to hold a parties, singing contest ,play basketball an so on .not rely on my parents