Not easy to be best friends to lovers, as lovers to friend
By distary
@distary (24)
United States
November 18, 2008 3:37am CST
Since I was a teen I always wondered what's on the mind of a girl. when I had a crush, I always thot that if I became close to a girl that she would fall for me. What I realized was that it wasn't that easy. Girls are very attached to a friend who they can depend on and when you become a best friend its not easy to be lovers becuz lovers cnt become frends again. I went to far with friendships and lost a lot of friends and wanted to know why its so hard?
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@sivanj (1263)
• India
18 Nov 08
This is a tough one to answer. But i don't think it is tough to be a good friend to a lover. even in case of lover you need to be caring, supportive, sharing and ... The same is the case in case of friends as well. But you may need to be a bit cautious while handling lover which may not be the case with friends.
Being a lover to a friend is bad and needs no comments. This is to be avoided. If you love then propose and be lovers. don't be friends but keep loving. you are cheating yourself and the relation.
happy mylotting.
