What are the things you like / dislike about your spouse / partner ?

hey, i'm not married yet. but i do have someone in my life though ^_* the thing that i hate about him is his laziness in contacting me. as i'm living overseas with my parents. in fact, he has lots of work to do daily and i myself dont like anyone to interrupt me while studying, but if we keep on distancing our life due to our busy schedules, we would never get in touch! uhhh, i don know what to do? Smiley,

What i like most about my husband is that he is a hands on Dad... he changes the diaper of my daughter... knows how to mix milk formula... and can even style our daughter's hair beautifully... when i am at work and he is left with my daughter... i do not need to worry... because for sure he will take care of her... since he is a good cook and is very patient with children... But then... he can be over protective... to the sense that it is quite ridiculous... children needs to play on their own... and they need to be independent once in a while... but he doesn't like that... and he can be a control freak and neat freak at times...

Right now, his snoring. During summer, its still OK coz the whirring of the fan absorbs the sound but now that its almost winter and the fan’s off most nights, I just can’t sleep. No amount of pushing or shouting or shoving helps…he’s just like too much for me now! Otherwise he’s OK

Here, I would just talk about more extrinsic things and would not go into depth. I am sure you intend this that way only. As much as a shy person that I am, I deeply love man with humour. And I would like my man to be witty and humorous. I do not like men who are garrulous but they should have great sense of humour. Again, I love generous and chivalrous men. May be I am old school, but how i love my man to open the door and treat me like a princess. And what you have shared there is essentially my father. He is exactly like that. He hasn't ever appreciated my mom. But there are moments that show how deeply he cares. Like I remember, when my mom had to go through a major surgery, he was a lost man! How unusual but how touching that was!

i am married to a wonderful wife for 6 years already, but the one that i dont like about her is she is a work aholic. she is a stay at home mom but i think she is over work. she wakes up at 5 in the morning and she sleeps at ten. she do house hold work and she is also a hands on mom to our two years old son. i even tell her to take a nap when our child is taking a nap but still she is always looking for something to do. she is sad when she is not doing anything. even when she watch tv her hands are busy.

Um! I hate like this People Also My Aunt Husband like this I don't also like his because wat's the hell if someone given you anything for heartily & you don't respect her feelings??? Anyway, I am with you Aunty & wish you all the best have a nice day.

Sorry I just cannot do justice to this discussion because I don't dislike anything about my wife.

hmmm...let me thing now. I like the fact that my husband of 9 years is an intellectual and takes care to spend quality time with our kids. He's definitely not a handy man around the house. And I hate that because I have to take care of the usual wife responsibilities as well as his responsibilities around the house.

first and foremost, his snoring. It’s a particularly trying time at bed every night, specially in winter when there’s no fan to subdue the sound. Other than that, there’s nothing much I dislike about him, maybe his laziness.

Hi Rose....what a discussion.....lol well, there can be full list of likes and dislikes, but I will just share one irritating habit of his.....He is very slow in everything , we are just opposites. It is just like rabbit and tortoise race....but at the same time I will accept the fact that , Slow and Study wins the race........When we go for marketing, he gets stuck at a place for a long time while I finish 80% of shopping alone, and when he is concentrating on one thing, then he cannot hear anything else.......and when finally we come the counter and bill is ready.......he is in no hurry to pay....he will slowly put his hands in this pocket, take out his wallet , open it slowly, check is money, then look into the bill for another few seconds.......oh my God....I really loose my patience . I am a kind of person who keeps money in hands before the bill is calculated.....I just don't know how some people can remain so cool and calm and so slow.........offfffffffffff

Hello Rose. I am no longer single, but married with a very lady, my wife. lol. I am very happy for my wife and love her and appreciate her for all that has been done by her for the family. So it is hard for me to find something that I dislike about her.

I hate that my husband is more helpful around the house. He does help, on occassion, but not on a regular basis.

The best thing that I liked about my husband was I did not have to worry if guests dropped in unexpectedly. My hubby would come into the kitchen and help with all the work. And if it was my side of the family and specially someone whom I had not met for a very long time he would make sure I spent time with them and he himself would make the tea and snacks for all of us....and if needed even the meals......and on my birthday he would always forget to buy me a gift so when I reminded him he would make up by cooking all the meals on that day....

Hi Roseo, I am just like your wife.. I hate taking a nap.. I have a 3 month old kid.. My hubby always insists me to sleep when my kid is sleeping, but i dont do it..I will be doing all my pending work while she is sleeeping and I got used living like this..The best thing about my husband is he is god fearing, no smoking nor boozing.. The biggest thing i dislike in him is he is very stinchy and indolent too.. He hates spending money whereas i love to.. He is very lazy, he never places things in its place whereas I am a perfectionist, I want everything to be clean and neat.. Regards, Akila