Being Single for Wjole Life?

hahaha.. I have been single for a long time and I feel it's not good to be single for a lifetime. You are always the subject of teasing by friends and work associates. It is hard when you are sick, no body would take good care of you. You feel all alone with nobody to share your success and disappointments in life. The good thing when you are single is you can do everything you want without considering other people.

Just be yourself and in time, things may change. You may change. I mean, you are still young at 21 and by the time you are 30 you may well have matured more. You may by then have earned more and have a house and have good job prospects. You may then find that you are more attractive to women looking for stability and security in a man.

hlow sdas86, it is not bad to be single in your whole life if you like to .. you are working on your destiny and that whatever you choose in your life you must be sure that you are happy it. :0 for me am afraid being single for my life because I don't want to be alone especially when i get old. I am hoping that i will have someone in my life .. it will be fun :)

Ive never had one myself. Not that I prefer to be single for my whole life but it just happens. I mean wouldnt those kinds of relationships usually happen when you've met in school, especially high school or something like that? Just so happens that my high school classmates were my classmates since kindergarten so we kinda grew up together and I just see them as a sibling relationship. Sure, there were couples in the batch and there are goodlooking guys but once you just see a person in one way, no matter how rich, gentleman/sophisticated, or handsome/beautiful he/she is you just see them as that and nothing more. I do want to have someone to grow old with but Im not rushing things. Though, I have thought that I might become an old maid because I dont look for relationships, I just wait for it to happen, something like that. Well, Im sure you will find someone who you're most comfortable with and you just might be with that lucky gal for the rest of your life.

I think it would be good if you reflect upon the things that bother you about being with girls. Also don't push yourself nor be in a hurry when you to be in a relationship. Relationships are more than what most people think. It is a big responsibility that is dealt with maturity. So just enjoy yourself and your being single.