Hanging Out With Friends Is Waste Of Time??

I seldom hang out with friends after i'm together with my husband. Sometimes there are really lots of joy hanging out with friends, but sometimes i don't feel so if there is only talking nonsense. Then it's absolutely waste of time and tiring.

This is a very good discussion and I am sure there are a lot of people out there who have friends,whether they be just friends,good friends,or best friends,and then I am sure that out of those there are people who enjoy hanging out with all of their friends the same,and then there are probably people who enjoy hanging out with maybe their best friends more than their good friends,and their good friends more than their just friends,and then I am sure there are people who do not enjoy hanging out with their friends at all,either because they are really busy and do not have much free time because they work busy jobs,where they spend a lot of hours working,or they have a lot things that they have to do around the house,or because they just rather spend time alone at home doing solo activities,or spend time alone with your partner accomplishing things,or just talking,or even just spending time together with no distractions,I am sorry you only have a few friends,and it sucks that you do not have much experience on hanging out with friends,because hanging out with friends is very important because we can learn a lot about ourselves from spending time with our friends,and we can also help ourselves learn,grow and become a better person with the help of our friends,I know that there are different classes of friends such as just friends,good friends,and best friends,and me and my fiance do not always have time to spend with our friends because we can not find a job right now due to the economy so we have to make as much money online on sites like mylot as we can just so we can survive,especially since we are in the middle of planning our wedding which is set for September of next year,and before long it will be January and we will have to make the invitations and starting buying the attire and other things that we will need for the wedding,and there is a lot to do,and it causes a lot of stress on me and my fiance,and we have some just friends who used to be good friends but they owe me money,and they only come around when they need or want something,so we try to avoid them,and do not hang out with them because they are trouble and will do nothing but hurt us,and then we have a couple friends who are becoming good friends who we are trying to spend more time with,so we can get to know them more and become closer with,and they live five minutes away so it makes it easier to see them,and then there is one friend who went from a best friend to a good friend to a friend,who is talking to me again,and maybe he will prove to still be a good friend,but there is not telling,and then I have two best friends one of course is my fiance who I love with all my heart and soul,and she loves me,and she always knows how to make me smile,and make me laugh,and make me feel better when I am sad or in a bad mood,and since she lives with me at my parents house,I get to spend every minute with her which makes me so happy,and then my other best friend is a guy I met in school who has the same birthday as me except I am three years older which is part of the reason we became best friends and he is like a brother to me because he will do anything for me,and I will do anything for him,and we have both helped each other out of some sticky situations which is the way it should be and he is the one me and my fiance try to hang out with the most,and he calls me almost every day just so we can chat,and when me and my fiance are on a third shift schedule,on his days off he will come by when he gets off in the morning,since he works third shift maintenance at Wal Mart,and sleep and then when we all get up at like four pm,we will hang out until he leaves at like six am the next morning,so we will sometimes spent a long time with which is awesome.

I'm much appreciate the time that hanging out with friends. It is the time for us to talk, to share, to understand each other more. Just try to love your friends more, so you will never think that is waste of time!

welll...are your friends actually friends?or are they just using you?i have alot of good friends and hanging out with them makes time go by fast...but i think its better to hang out with friends that to be stuck at home all day