what to do

Time to get on with your life. Obviously you don't love or trust him enough to respect his privacy. Yes, going through his phone messages is a volation of his privacy. Would you be OK with him doing the same with yours? My ex-wife did that with my e-mails and misinterpreted one. That plus other issues finally brought our marriage to the end. So, I suggest you go back to mom, take at least 6 months off dating, just enjoy being yourself for a while. Better things are waiting for you.

best thing you must do is to ask first your fiance about the message you read and ask what is his purpose of inviting her for a double date maybe he just want them to meet you and be friends to them. if you love this man you must have trust him tell him everything what you like and what you don't like.

I know how hard it is to leave someone that you love, but does he love you the same? Why would he want to go out with someone else if he loves you just as much. I have been used a bunch of times in my life and I have loved a few guys. They never loved me the same so I moved on. It was very hard to do but I have been happily married for 13 years now. I am so glad I moved on to find the right one for me.

Do you really want to marry someone that has no respect for you? do you want to spend years wondering if her is still dating behind your back? YOu've neem fightinmg for a year for him st be faithful???? My dear young lady, you deserve to be treated better than this. You need to be with someone that you can trust and with whom you can build a life. I'm so sorry, but he sounds like a jerk. Get rid of him quickly and move on with or life. Why do you want to be with someone like this you obviously does not love or care about you. I'm sorry of I sound too hard on you but think carefully about what I have said. God Bless.

Fighting for him to be faithful? Girl he don't love you if he can't be faithful...What's the point in getting married? Just because you love someone doesn't mean they love you back. It isn't ever going to work out! Trust me if he can't be faithful to you now then he never will be. He may say he loves you but it's not you he loves. There may be a part of you he does, but not all. because if he loved all of you then he wouldn't even been thinking about another girl. Marriage isn't going to solve anything, if you think you have him just because your married to him, your wrong. I wish you the best of luck in the decision you make and I don't know you that well but I do know you know what the right decision is.

sounds like he does no what he really wants maybe you should both go your separate ways until he knows how to treat you and what he really wants.

You cannot stay with someone you can't trust. He has shown you that he cannot be. You have to do what is best for you and your baby.

Sadly, if he's not faithful now, I doubt he'd be faithful in a marriage. :(

its your call! weigh the gravity of what he did- if you'll be able to forgive and forget you'll still be together, if not, then you're on to the road of being strong and knowing what you really want in a relationship.