my first discussion on mylot !!!! Sb can help me?

you need more communication with your gf,in my opinion,there must be have some misunderstanding each other,dont be worried and thats nothing serious.though i havent a gf,,never,ever....but i think if two persons really love each other, everything will be easy.right?

Well when me and my girlfriends get in fights, I just ask her what she wants to do. If she wants to keep on going out with me, or if she wants to break up or take a break. If she says shes wants to take a break, I just find another girlfriend.

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if you really loved her,I think quarrel makes few influence,but you should buy some flowers and cinema tickets maybe,and ask her give you chance to explain.

Hi Lin! I think the communication is very important for maintaining a relationship. For myself, i sometimes have conflicts and misunderstanding with my husband, sure, in a relationship, this cannot be avoided. Sometimes, it's healthy but sometimes not, it all depends on how we handle it. When your girlfriend is mad on you, i think it's better to give her some times to cool down first, but of course it doesn't mean that you totally ignore her at that time, you still have to show your patience and concern to her. After she has calmed down, then it's time for both of you to talk about it. It's better to talk frankly to each other, otherwise the problem will not be settled, and the same thing will happen again! I'm still working on my relationship, trying to find out what is the way for living together. :-) All the best for us!

I think when you date someone, It isn't always be happy time. Sometimes you will have a few contradictory and some quarrel. All you have to do is to talk about it with your girlfriend and solve it together. That's all I know about good relationship need good communication.