How would you choose between a poor and a rich lover who both loves you?

I totally agree with you Anjanabs, i think even though they might love or show some true love in you, there will always be the one that you mostly love or prefer

Okay, here is a situation where both of this people have really shown how much they really loves you, they both make you happy and treat you to the level that you desire and always they both welcome you with warm hands. Now from what you can see is the fact that they both love you and shown you some true love, although the other guy is poor but he is mad about you, and again even though the next guy is rich he also shown how much you really mean to him They both have true love towards you

Oh my. Two prospective partners who both loved me true! Um. At that point...Rock, paper, scissors! Haha. Good question.

In this case you are not yet in love with either of them, you are still trying to choose which one to love. They all love you, but the difference between the two is money. I think like you said wait and see who you really love and you feel like you will be comfortable with and take it from there

This guys all of them love you, they both showed that to you, and not like the rich has bought some expensive stuff to show how much they really feel about you,no. He has done small simple things, and again even the poor guy has shown his love for you. But now the difference between the two is cash, the other one is poor and next one is rich but they all truly love you

In this case both show true love to you. The two guys here do not know each other, you might have met the other one who stays down the street and the other one might be from the other city, and they all show how much they really loves you You can tell from both this people that the are really in love and what they both have is nothing but true love, and they treat you the way you want to be treated.

Well, i think this thing will not happen on me, haha!!!! A choice is very diffcuclt for women, they usually hesitate, and sometimes they do a bad choice, if these two guys are love me in the same way, i will choosed one i love, i admit the rich one is more attracting. Actually i will not fall in love with two guys, i only love one guy, now and forever. No matter what happened, i will still love him.

Yes, i think a good relationship is based on that, but in this case both this poor and rich person's loves you. You have spend some time with each one of them and they have really shown true love towards you and you are now faced with the challenge of who to choose Who will that be, will it be the poor person or the rich one?

But, having them love me doesn't mean I love them. It's whether I feel the same way that counts.

It is also a good thing to our hearts, and i think in your case the decision should be easy because then you would have spend some time with each of them and already you know whom you best want to spend your time with. Thanks Kaka

I think that would work, but don't you think after telling the poor guy about the other person who also loves you...the poor guy will sort of pullback? i mean after realizing that he cannot win against that rich guy and maybe the fact that the rich guy will do everything you want and take you everywhere you wanna go. Obviously the richer guy will do all nice things within that time you gave them, although they might not be fancy as you mentioned that "the guy doesn't have to be rich to prove that he loves you", but still i think that the rich one will do much better things that may find its way on winning your heart But what about that poor guy? what if he just cutout flowers from his garden everyday to show how much he really loves you?

Choosing the one your heart love is obviously what most of us will do, but what if they are all so romantic and intelligent, although their intelligence might not be seen in the same way because they are obviously different and live totally a different life. But if they are similar in most of the things they do and both very clever people, but now the difference is the fact that the next one is rich and the other dude is poor?

That's would be a good thing "to follow what your heart says". And because you would have already spend some time with each of them and i guess you would have already know who will be your sweetheart. thanks Salonga

They are all determined and proved that they truly love you, they all do things that make you happy, but now the big difference is the life they live, the cash the other one has and poorness the other one has

hmmm...that's so hard to choose from... i guess i have to take a vacation and from there, i will choose whoever i will miss and think most of the time.... :)

What if the rich guy also love you the same way the poor guy loves you, i mean he also showed that he loves you, not by buying everything you need but by doing small things which he knows that they make you happy. So is the poor guy he has done things that make you happy

well it would then go down to, what we have in common, whos wiser and considerite. Respects me too would have to be there.

I'm from nowhere and going nowhere slowly

Sounds like so far most people do not want the wealthier men/women and i'm not sure why because they too need some love, even though most people might think they could turn out to be worse, but they too need some love. thnks