How do you heal a broken heart?
By _kal_el_
@_kal_el_ (60)
Portugal
November 18, 2008 7:05pm CST
What are the best ways to heal a broken heart? Broken by love or even for a lose of someone close?
4 responses
@fabjonah (140)
• Philippines
19 Nov 08
healing a broken heart takes much time, depending on the level of attachment to your lost partner. in my case, until now, i feel that i wasn't able to heal my broken heart after i fall in love 13years ago. i'm still longing for that person to be mine. however, he already have his own family, but at the back of my mind - one day we'll be back to each others arms. maybe i'm just a fool, thats why i never had a chance to love again.
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@_kal_el_ (60)
• Portugal
19 Nov 08
I guess you are right, even if e say for ourselves that we got over it, our mind and heart deny our words even if it was our major wish, sometime we get so used to live by someone's arms that its a unknown and dark road when we are alone. So the person you really loved will never find the way out of your heart since you let them in, love is complicated but with dedication, praticing and time sometime we can go over it and fall in love again! I wish you the best honestly :)
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
8 Oct 10
True, love makes the world happy and love is unconditional , if not it isnt love.
@imee012613 (29)
• Philippines
20 Nov 08
the best way i can tell you to your problem is you have to release the pain and give all your faith to the One up high... the Lord God. you can even think of something that there will be someone that will come to your life soon. just relax
@mazdakid (347)
• Philippines
19 Nov 08
i guess it depends on your personality. if you are a sociable type, you may wanna hang out with your closest friends so that you can vent out your sadness and appreciate the comfort that they provide. if you are an introvert type, you can analyse your situation and figure out what went wrong and deal with that cause.
in my case, my last ex broke my heart coz she had another guy ever since we started the relationship. she broke up with me on december 23, one week after our hong kong vacation which we had as a date for our 3rd month (yeah, sounds stupid. hehe). i was so traumatised and i was very hurt to enter into another relationship for nearly 2 years. since i'm an introvert, i figured out that it was not my problem. i was the loyal one. i also learned that not all people are monogamous, and if i ended up with another "playful" one, at least i'm not the evil one. for now, i'm enjoying my life as a single guy since i save a lot since there are no more expensive dates. hehe.
