what is lonely?

Hello clarkmy Just like tonight. My husband going out to another town for 4 days because of work And now I felt lonely, no one here with me, just a laptop and internet connection. MyLot really helpful now. I slept alone and eat alone. I really miss my husband. I can't stay long far away from him. God bless you

Loneliness really is a terrible thing most of the time. I am pretty lonely myself. But there is some good things about loneliness. You can think about things you have never thought before, you have no one to talk to, so you talk to yourself in your head. You think about many things, often "Outside the box". Loneliness also offers a time to REALLY get to know yourself and who you are. So yes there is much negative about loneliness, but there is some good. I thought that this was needed to say so....ya :p

It is whether you are alone by choice or by circumstance. I am very happy to sometimes be alone but then I lead a busy married life and work hard with others and also socialise with others so a quiet time is treasured. But loneliness when it is unwanted can be tough. For me it would not last long because I would get out and join a club or society and would quickly meet people. If you have a personality that makes such a gregarious act difficult to achieve then I can see that loneliness is the result.

hehe,most of time i am living alone,and from time to time i feel lonly too .frankly speaking ,as a single man ,i feel awesome to spend a good few lonesome time once a day. friends of mine either hastily come or hastily go ,seems as if all the time they are fully occupied with endless personal things. o.O another lonely day coming near!i'd better plan to invite my friends with me again and again.

Hi, I am a person who like to live lonely, because I don't know :-), Friends I think its nature , yeah I know aslo that human is a social type of animal so he always required somebody to talk or to participate to share his life moments, but some body like to be lonely also and in this case there is no problem to be loney yeah he can feels something wrong with him ,because he saw that every body indulge with him at that moment I think person should think and decide about his condition and if not possible than we should share with somebody , I think this is what for which every person want to marry with their opposite...

Dear Clarkmy, what you need to know is to distinguish between feeling lonely and being alone. Being alone is good and that is the fact for evryone. Everyone is alone. But feeling lonely is a psychological thing. Marillyn Monroe, for example, felt lonely inspite of her status. Being alone has got more of spiritual side to it and feeling lonely has got a lot to do with the ego...as to people, situations and factors adhering 'favourably' to me and my manifestations and to everything related to me. It is true that everybody needs to feel accepted and pampered. So why not everybody who feels lonely, try this for a change. Why not become interested in what others do and appreciate what others do and also appreciate and welcome what others feel and tell about you in a construcive manner. Trust me do this and you can banish your feeling of loneliness.

I have experienced some of those one time or another in my life. For me it is natural that we feel lonely sometimes. In experiencing such we learn more about ourselves and maybe we'll learn more about life too. Just stay positive and everything will be alright.

Hi frnds, I don't like the lonelyness.some times i like when my frnds come to my home.when my parents went outside.lonelyness will be some boring time to me,

I am in this situation right now. I cook for myself, and would eat the same food fo 3 days. Watch something on tv and laught alone, go home and nobody greets you. Oh my. I feel so sad. But I am looking forward to have my family here with me.

yes i have experienced the period that you mentioned above.and whenever this time i feel that it is too quite to endure,and i want to beat sb,bite sb and cry loudly.

Hi, Not only by staying alone you will feel lonely; Even if you have 100 people around, but none of them bother about your presence or care about you, then for sure you will feel lonely.. Living with someone who doesnt give love nor care about your presence or does not pacify you when you are crying, you will feel lonely and that loneliness which you experience will be all the more painful... According to me, I prefer to live alone rather than living with the one who doesnt care for me.. Regards, Akila

Hi Darkmy, yes i've been through this experience when i was in the university, my family was living far away and i was alone, doing everything by self, it was a hard time for me to be a lone really, but now i have my little sweet family, my husbend, my sweet angel baby and me :) ..

I do believe that everyone has a share of loneliness in this world. I myself sometimes feel alone. The state of loneliness is only temporary, just like everything else (including happiness), and it is our choice if we choose to be in that state or not. We have the choice to move on and search our own happiness, or we can choose to stay where we are, self-pity, and be absorbed by the loneliness we feel from within.

i am a young lady who is surrering such feelings now, it is really something that awful and terriblr, I hope i can get out such situation soon, but who could help? maybe what we should do badly is try do make ourselves happy, but how? maybe find friends online is one way out.