do you believe in "first love never dies"?
By alleroid16
@alleroid16 (943)
Philippines
November 20, 2008 4:12am CST
i really have a bad day today. i really don't know what should i do. well, i can't handle myself to just take relax when my ex crush is there. and past few hours ago, i'm with him, i think just a seat apart, and while our professor is discussing we never ever greet each other, just saying hi or hello. i'm just not used to it. because, in past few months, we often go somewhere everytime were bored. and we often eat together and hang out together, which is opposite what is happening now.
for now, i really believe in FIRST LOVE, why? its because i really can't get out of him, because maybe i really love him. which sometimes, my friends says that i really love him. and i'm just lying to them.
anyway, you? do you believe in first love? why?
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2 responses
@tklich (391)
• United States
21 Nov 08
A lot of times if you're really crushing on someone, or if it's your first crush, it could easily be mistaken for love. Sometimes it's very hard to determine if you are even in love or not. I dated a couple guys in high school, but my first love was when I was 18 right after I graduated high school. I don't "love" him anymore, but I know I will forever hold a special place in my heart for him. If things don't work out with someone, you can't force things to happen or change how this person feels. You have to learn how to move on. There will be lots of other people that come and go from your life. Just learn to trust and follow your heart.
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@alleroid16 (943)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
uh? yeah. i think i need to move on. if i'm going to still hold on, i think that would hurt me so much. but how can i move on if i'm always with him? yeah, i'm always with him but i think things wouldn't work with him. thanks for the advice.
happy mylotting!:)
@alleroid16 (943)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
there no such way to stop seeing him. he's my classmates for most of my subjects. and i always see him everyday, that's why it's really hard to move on. and i don't want him to know that i hate him. that's it. :) hope that everything will be okay. i'll stop to hangout with him.
happy mylotting!
@tklich (391)
• United States
21 Nov 08
If you think it's going to be hard to move on when you still see a lot of him, is there a way you can stop seeing him? Maybe you shouldn't hang out with him and see him as little as possible. If you see him everyday, it's going to be hard to move on with any feelings you are confused about or think you might still have for him. It's just going to be harder in the end if you know ultimately things won't work out anyways.
@alleroid16 (943)
• Philippines
20 Nov 08
uh, sad to say that it happens to me,.and i really don't know what should i do. especially this afternoon., i really don't know, and we just not talking to each other and nothing happens good. and i see him before i went home,and still no greeting come,. well, i just snob what we do. but sometimes i really can't snob him.
happy mylotting!
