Call off the wedding !!!!!!!!!

I know a man who canceled his wedding a day before the actual day. Apparently the woman has left with his boyfriend's friend to organize other things while his husband was busy with others. They left in the friend's car and hired a room on a small hotel away from home and they didn't know that the owner of that hotel knew that the lady was getting married the following day and again was a friend of the husband. The owner suspect when they were looking for a room. After they left he went through the security video and saw everything, he immediately phoned his friend to come and see something, when he got there he was shown the video. He then rushed back home and canceled everything and left the woman same day also

it would really all depend on what it was and if we were able to discuss what it was and the time frame in which it was discovered. If it was something that I found out months before the wedding, but we had been together for a while I would question why he decided to keep it from me for so long. We would definitely have to sit down and have a long discussion on the subject. However, if I found out he had cheated on me even if it was months before I found out, I would call the wedding off immediately regardless of if we were 6 months, 6 days, or 6 hours from the wedding.

Well, I have been Blessed to be Married to a wonderful man for almost 10 yrs. now, but in a lot of ways, I do realize most men are far from like him as I was engaged a couple of times before meeting him, and many times when I broke it off, it was for the Best and God was watching over me as well. I broke it off with all of them for various reasons. One of them was because I had been told by someone who was my friend at the time, that she had been sleeping with my Fiance, even though she was Married, and sometimes wished she was the one marrying my Fiance. So for me, it would really depend on what your situation is, but if I were you, and it is something that you really feel is worth breaking up for like infidelity, etc. I would say you are best doing it now before it became Adultry, etc. in marriage as well. Personally Marriage is never something that should be jumped into lightly. Go with your gut feeling, and Prayer if you do that and know God has something better lined up for you as well.

It still depends upon the shocking revelation. Maybe if I heard someone that he is a criminal, or he got someone pregnant or that he's married that's the time I will decide to call off the wedding. But before deciding, I will talk to him first and really investigate if it's all true. But if all the revelation is all about his bad habit such as farting in public places, I think it's still bearable(i'm kidding!)

I shall definitely talk tothe person. If I can communicate with myfuture life partner, then I do not think thee is any future in such a relationship. If the info is correct and you wishto call off, maybe it is all the better than to live with a secret forever. In fact, maybe destiny has better plans for those parties involved.

It all depends on what you have found out , maybe your partner has lied about something important, or you have found out they have a criminal record for child abuse, murders, they are seeing someone else or maybe it is not what you want and are looking for an excuse.I would confront your partner and see what they have to say then decide if you can live with it and then it is down to the two of you to figure out a solution, what ever it may be. It is a very sad situation my friends daughters fiance decided he could not go through with it a month before the day because of family pressure as her family had some very ill people in it and he did not want to pass these genes onto his children it is always awful ,for what ever reason.xx