Is doing the right thing always that hard
@gongadeenkhan (10)
Trinidad And Tobago
November 20, 2008 12:57pm CST
this is for mainly the people in relationships.Have you ever been in a relationship that is heading south?. then for some reason you meet someone, that is not perfect, but more specific to what you need at that time.you find yourself being more interested in what (who) you have just found and neglecting what (who) was always there? then to top it all off you and the person you have just met are in the same predicament- you both are involved with other people whom you both claim to love, the right thing is to put that energy into your failing relationship? isn't it?
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@jayyerex (224)
• Canada
20 Nov 08
It sounds like you need to honor not only yourself but also your partner. Sometimes relationships don't work out. That's ok. there's nothing wrong with that, but you need to make sure that it ends properly. That means having the other persons best interest at heart. i also think that we all need to learn to love ourselves first before we can learn to truly love someone else. this is not so easily done I know. I have four children and am very happily married. My wife and I trust and love one another by allowing each other to be or own person. There is no trying to change one another or trying to make them fit the mold that we want each other to fill. Love them for who they are and love yourself as well. In this way you can avoid ever trying to have someone fulfill your needs because they will already be fulfilled by you. I hope this helps, Jay
