Men do you perfer the Skinny Minnies or the Thicker Divas
By AcousticSoul
@AcousticSoul (1309)
United States
12 responses
@chasingsunlight (261)
• United States
20 Nov 08
Well, I can't exactly speak for men in general (seeing as how I'm not even a guy), but my boyfriend has told me several times that he would prefer if I gain weight. How many guys tell their girlfriends they wish they were heavier??
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@AcousticSoul (1309)
• United States
21 Nov 08
Wow I find that hard to believe I would think men would want their women to be like you slim if anything I would think he would advocate loosing weight LOL
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@chasingsunlight (261)
• United States
21 Nov 08
Nope, he keeps telling me to eat more and stop going to the gym so much.
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@anshumanbardhan (13)
• India
21 Nov 08
I think the most important aspect is that whether the woman is attractive or not. There is no definite parameter to liking skinny women or thicker divas. its attraction and love which drive a person to love or like a woman. A skinny woman is attractive if she has a nice figure and a thick diva will also be attractive if she is cute and lovable.
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@AcousticSoul (1309)
• United States
21 Nov 08
I agree I think most men look both sides as long as the lady is attractive to them it really doesn't matter and then you have those men who have a preference..
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@bobbyjoe143 (1287)
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20 Nov 08
i am not a guy, but have a couple of things to say on this.
my boyfiend prefers me to have a "a bit of a belly" as he calls it, however i prefer to be slender (not too skinny, but tofat either).
my friends' partner prefers her to be podgy, she is slightly overweight, but i woudn't call her fat.
my cousins is a rather large man himself and his wife is on the larger side too, he has told me that he wouldn't want her to be sknny as he feels he would break her lol!
my dad on the other hand finds larger women to be repulsive, and couldn't evenfind my mum attractive while pregnant (all 6 times lol).
everyone is different, but i find most men are happy with womens bodies so long a they get a chance to grab hold of them once in a while rofl!
@dantakum (404)
• Nigeria
21 Nov 08
i quit agree with you ,Men have diffrent tex for women,every man have what he prefers in a woman so for me
All i want in a woman's body is she most not be too skinny,not too fat just avreage.like you said most men are happy with women bodies so long they get a chance to grab hold how can i grab hold a skinny thing,so you see i need something to hold frim.
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@sisco100 (2338)
• United States
21 Nov 08
personally for me i would like a girl that's in the middle. i don't want a stick figure that i could brake if i fell on he and i don't want a girl that i cant get my arms around or pick up. i cant say that all guys are like this, but most of my guy friends would say the same things. not to be mean to skinny girls but to me i would consider them more of a trophy wife kind of thing. its not some that i would love, but more someone that i would like to show off.
I'm not say that i don't like bigger girls its just that i would be more likely to love a girl that has some meat on her body. i think that skinny looks good in magazines but not in person. they make me just want to shove like a funnel in their mouth and pour some lard into it. its like don't be afraid of food it wont kill you.
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@AcousticSoul (1309)
• United States
21 Nov 08
LOL yes I say the same thing Eat dammit... her take this peice of cornbread LOL... but to each is own Im not mad I just can't get with the skinness
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@mercuryman3a (2477)
• India
21 Nov 08
When i havbe a girl in my arms and in bed, i want her to have something which I can feel. I don't want bones jutting out and hurtig me. plenty of flesh at teh right places is what feels nice. it gives a nice cushiony effect whether she is on top of me or i am on top of her. She shoud not be too thick set too or else she gets shapeless and you deo not know the stomach from the back side. Lo1!
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@AcousticSoul (1309)
• United States
21 Nov 08
Ha that is nasty, stomach from the back wow! LOL...
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@AcousticSoul (1309)
• United States
21 Nov 08
aww lucky you wanting to gain weight and can't I wish I could do that LOL...
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@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
24 Nov 08
HI
Mostly all the men like brother, dad, friends, fiance in my life have liked and dated a girl with meat on her . I think curves are lovely and men like it ! No matter what people say if you carry yourself well you look good . Each person thinks or likes something differnt but i know there are men that like the bigger girl ![](/Content/images/emotes/rasp.gif)
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@AcousticSoul (1309)
• United States
21 Nov 08
Ok so you like average women with a little meat sounds good to me thanks :o)
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@jags420 (189)
• India
22 Nov 08
i prefer the big ones. the skinny ones... you feel them and they feel like an emaciated one with rib cage, all bones prominent. like a skeleton of the zoology lab. girls should have flesh at the right places. a little over weight is just the right choice for me..
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@luvandpower (2048)
• United States
24 Nov 08
yea i know what you mean, a girl where it is like your holding a skeleton or something, feel like giving her more than one kind of meat.
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@luvandpower (2048)
• United States
24 Nov 08
I don't want a skinny chick. I mean there is no exploration, no fun with that, sure they are okay, and I am not going to turn one down, but there is just more to love in a heavier set chick. i am large myself, little overweight, but not HUGE so I wouldn't want like lets say a 300 pound person on me, but you know somebody around 150-225 pounds. There is more to love, which means the more I can give.
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@ShortyAkbar (384)
• United States
20 Nov 08
Bony girls are played out. I prefer girls that have some weight on them. And there are a lot of girls that would look better if they were a tad bit heavier.
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@AcousticSoul (1309)
• United States
21 Nov 08
LOl played out... this whole discussion is blowing my mind really I thought everyone one was going to say Skinny Minnies...Good for you.. :o)
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