My husband Women
By kissie34
@kissie34 (2294)
Philippines
November 20, 2008 9:58pm CST
What will you do if you find out that your husband/wife/bf/gf and your best friend had cheated you?? What will be your reaction?? isn't it funny that we want our best friend to be friend with our partner?? We want them to be close just like the friendship you have with your friend.. We both trust them so we were not thinking that they might develop each other and sooner will cheat on you.. So, what if you found out that your partner and your very own best friend have a secret affair?? How will you accept it?? Will you going to accept it? 
Well, I'm not asking you this kind of question because it is happening to me but it just came into my mind with this kind of topic..
Hope you will able to share something from my discussion.. 
Well, I'm not asking you this kind of question because it is happening to me but it just came into my mind with this kind of topic.. Hope you will able to share something from my discussion.. 1 person likes this
4 responses
@bittertruth (150)
• United States
22 Nov 08
I'm sure you just watched some crappy movies based upon screwed up relations..
and, I don't have any close friends, except my girl. i don't need them either.
to socialize my family and relatives are enough.
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@bittertruth (150)
• United States
24 Nov 08
these are the crappy movies that's giving society wrong messages and inspiring them to do same
@mariacel (50)
• Philippines
25 Nov 08
first i would ask them "WHY & WHERE?", of all people why they cheated on me? where did i go wrong to be cheated? after hearing their words, ill get them out of my life. ill go on my way, stand strong & move on. though it really hurts, but nothing i can do. i can't force someone to love me for what & who i am, neither having a bestfriend that will always back stab me & untrusted. i don't need a lover that is unfaithful, unrespectful, a cheater & not a man enough to face me. i don't deserve that kind of treatment, being cheated! becoz when i get into a relationship, i gave my full trust, faith & love for he deserves those. And it's their LOST and not mine!
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@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
26 Nov 08
That's a good job! But I think its more painful to know the reasons why they cheated on you.. Well,sometimes we still need to know the truth even it is painful at least you know what are the things that you've done something wrong to them.. Yes, people who are unfaithful and can't be trust don't deserved to be friends and to be lover especially when you do everything to them.. Thanks for sharing!
@mariacel (50)
• Philippines
23 Apr 09
yes, its too painful, i guess. but that's what i thought of doing to get away from stressful emotions. its too disappointing when that happens in my life, and God is really good giving me such a faithful husband who is truly faithful to me since when he was still my boyfriend. i love him that much!
kissie, thank you for giving me the 'Best Response' award, hehehehe. its too flattering. i truly appreciate it. thank you also for the interesting topic discussion you have posted and will be posting.
god bless & take care! happy mylotting ...
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
Well if that happens to me, wow! Maybe I'll just leave them both without saying anything anymore. I will be alone, and healing the wounds. For sure it will take time years that will be years! TOforgive it will take time to forget it will be a life time. What about you what will you do? Both are special in your heart and part of your life. Have a nice day! I hope that wont happen to me! God bless!
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@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
If that happen to me, definitely I will really get mad with them especially with my friend because in all the people I've known why she's the one who cheated me.. The only person who i trust most.. I will really ask her and my boyfriend to stay away from me and don't ever let me see their faces again because next time I'll see them maybe I can already hurt them.. Forgive them?? Maybe, I won't ever forgive them for as long as the pain is still inside my heart.. Somehow I might forgive them in the future but it really takes a lot of time.. Yes, I also hope that it won't happen to us... Thanks for sharing!
@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
I will just ask them both to be out of my life. I don't needed them and nor will I tolerate their wrongdoings. I will go on with my life alone. And will try me best to move on and find another people that will fill up the spaces.
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@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
Well, I think you made the correct choice.. It is hard to accept someone who had hurt so bad especially if those people are those who are very special to us and someone who we really trust.. If I'm in that kind of situation, definitely I'll ask them to live far from me and never come into my life again since because of them my break breaks.. 
Anyway, thanks for sharing!
Anyway, thanks for sharing!