Missing in Action Again

@zandi458 (28102)
Malaysia
November 21, 2008 3:45am CST
Time off. Take it from me. Being a house bound homemaker, my exposure to the world outside is almost nil at this point of time. From morning till dawn I am confine to the perimeters of my house compound, creating my own little world of friends and fun only through the web and have not met or mingled with my long lost physical friends. Before insanity sets in ruining and killing my cells I have to step out and take a short break from activities here that has deprived me of the latest gossips and happenings outside. I felt I have almost turned robotic surfing the net endlessly not realizing that I am missing out a lot of wonderful and exciting things in this physical world. But mylot is too close to my heart that I am almost reluctant to leave as I will be missing some of my dear friends here whom I have come to admire and like. This place has become my second home where I can speak my mind out and get an almost instant answers to my questions, doubts and unsolved mysteries in life. Friends thank you for being there as I am gonna miss you all. I'll be missing your interesting discussions and rest assured that I'll come back soon to make up for the lost time. Happy mylotting
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11 responses
@Dday50627 (359)
• United States
21 Nov 08
You will be missed but I do understand. Go out and enjoy but dont have so much fun you forget us. Hugssssssss... Darrel
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
21 Nov 08
Hi Darrel, you have also been missing in action lately. Whats up? Sure would come back real soon.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
22 Nov 08
yeah..had a glimpse of your site and wow it has beautiful write up which is very fascinating and interesting. Have you also produce a novel or anything like that. Now I understand why you are missing in action here in mylot. You are busy writing eh. Anywhere your absence here is very much felt.
• United States
21 Nov 08
I know I have and I am sorry for that. Just home issues to deal with. I am sure you understand that. I do however manage to keep my site up and running. www.thingsiknowabout.blogspot.com check it out if you find the time. Hugsssss to you and thanks for noticing me MIA... Alway, Darrel
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Nov 08
i thought you make a movie "Missing in Action".we will wait for you when you return.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
22 Nov 08
yes but no interested actors and actresses. I am yet to get the script finalized.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Nov 08
hahaha cool
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
21 Nov 08
you'll be back soon hugsssssssssssssss
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
22 Nov 08
Very good hugs
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
21 Nov 08
sure come back soon.
@Anne18 (11029)
25 Nov 08
I'm glad that you like it here, it is a very fun place to be. I do spend a lot of time on here after the children have gone ot bed as i sit down stairs on my own.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
28 Nov 08
Hi Anne, we share the same addiction in mylot. This is the place I spend most of my time when I am on the net.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
21 Nov 08
i hope u are alright & it's not something serious u aren't telling us. i will miss hearing from you. u take care of yourself. hope to hear from u soon.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
21 Nov 08
I'm perfectly in good shape. Since it is the year end school holidays here I need to fetch my daughter from the boarding school which is miles away from where I stay and also to go back to my other house which I deserted for few months now. This place where I am now is where I run a business.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
21 Nov 08
good luck & happy holidays.
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@ron0540 (30)
• United States
24 Nov 08
Zandi458, You will be missed. I have come to respect your perspective on a wide variety of subjects. I hope you realize how smart you really are. You have a gift in your ability to communicate at several different levels. You have stimulated my brain several different times, and have made be take a deep look at my own beliefs and perceptions in so many areas. Thank you for the interaction. Hope to have you back soon, but, I learned along time ago that it is absolutely required that you take time out of each and every day for yourself. If a little time each day is not practical, then in a given week, you must give yourself a straight, no interruptions, no excuses, escape from the rigors of everyday life. Failure to do this, as you now feel, will lead to a melt down on several different levels. If this occurs, you will not be able to help or support or be there for anyone. I promise you that once you establish this time as part of your routine, it will become easier to make that time for yourself. You may end up finding even a little more time for just you. You are a treasure Zandi458, and we need people like you in this world. It is individuals like you that make a difference, so, take care, stay healthy, and know that you are loved. Your Friend ron
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
28 Nov 08
Sweetness can cause sickness. Praise is sweet, but too much of it can cause one to be sick. Right. Thanks for your comments. Yes, that is the best thing for me to get a rested mind before I journey further in my writings here. I just love to interact with people from all walks of life especially people like you who are well experience in life. We are always thirsty for new ideas and knowledge and you can fit in well with that kind of thoughtful ideas that you have in you. May we meet again here in some interesting encounters.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
21 Nov 08
Thanks for letting all of us know. I hope you will be able to come back with us soon at Mylot. I hate it when I have to be gone from here also. I get so far behind when that happens.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
21 Nov 08
I don't want to leave without informing my friends, as they might have discussions that i don't see while away. So you'll understand when I don't come to your discussion. I am on 'leave'
• Philippines
22 Nov 08
[i]Hey zandi! Don't go yet! Shucks! I'm sure mylot's gonna miss your wit gurl, I'm gonna miss your good posts as well. But yeah, we do need to go out every now and then to smell the fresh air and get re-acquainted with the real world. Good luck to you and hope I'll see you again in mylot soon! Have a great break! [/i]
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
22 Nov 08
Sure gonna miss you maple for your great responses. Will only go on Monday so still having fun here for now.
• United States
22 Nov 08
I was just feeling that way today, while washing up the supper dishes. I can't remember the last time I went out to do anything meaningful. Feels like my life is just passing me by. And, I'm not sure it's amounting to anything. But, I love my friends on Mylot. It's also my second home.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
22 Nov 08
Sounds good isn't. you have a second home to come back to and friends to share ideas.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
21 Nov 08
Hi zandi! You're funny too! I hope you're venture out into the world was fun for you! I hope it wasn't too scary out there because sometimes it can be! I too am home most of the time and now that it is getting really cold here I am more than thrilled to spend my time indoors and here with my mylot friends. I only wish that I had known about mylot sooner. Although last winter I was still going to day rehab everyday from 10-2 and by the time I got home I just wanted to go to sleep! It was extremely emotionally draining! But, not that it's over with I am home most days and looking forward to spending more time inside this winter except when I have no choice but to brave the cold for appointments and outside chores! So I hope you enjoyed your adventure!
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
22 Nov 08
Thanks Opal, the winter there must be very cold and I'm just lucky to be where I am. I really can't stand cold. But weather like yours makes the skin beautiful not being exposed to the hot sun. Less wrinkles I suppose.
@SeishiroX (1093)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
It's not quiet healthy to just stay at home and ignore the world. Take some time off, and we hope to see you back here soon. Cheers~
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
21 Nov 08
Yeah....it becomes monotonous to be home everyday. Need to breath fresher air in the mountain.