What do you call a relationship like this? and where it will lead?
By sapphire_b
@sapphire_b (231)
Philippines
November 21, 2008 4:10am CST
I personally wanted to ask how will you define a relationship between two single boy and girl in an office having so often nonesense but sweet sharing of thoughts and ideas, secretly teasing on chats and yet nothing after some months now is clear? The boy consoling on personal problems and simple thngs, sometimes being so sweet and the girl being silently falling but still containing herself because the boy is just like that all along...hmmmmmmmm kinda confusing!
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4 responses
@SeishiroX (1093)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
That's what I'd call a very close office friendship. However, we just won't know if neither one of the parties makes a move. Then again, it might just be nothing at all... just a friendship.
I hope I helped. Cheers~
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@sapphire_b (231)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
Obviously, in this case, its the guy who is expressing so much sweetness and yet not directly doing anything to make things clear...is it ok for the girl to make the move? when is the proper timing then?
@jhhayes777 (46)
• United States
21 Nov 08
That is confusing but is clear in that neither is ready to step out of their comfort circle for possibly a great thing. They are scared of losing what they already have and maybe just dont want to lose that for something else or coudl ruin it. THat is the real question is what do you expect or want out of it?
@sapphire_b (231)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
Yeah that could be true for long time friends, but for this kind that started out already like this, man expressing so much sweetness and associating herself with the girl and yet not yet actually courting the girl, the fear of loosing something is not applicable...except for the future working relationship. Is it right that the thought of wanting out of it is enough for the girl to make the situation clear? or should the girl take distance for guy to realize something?
@subha12 (18441)
• India
21 Nov 08
it is confusing. there are many relationships that are too sensitive. But we can't give any name to those relations. it is one of such a si think. better be friends and see with time where it goes.
@sapphire_b (231)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
Up to when should the girl who was bothered and now falling should contain herself? Would it be a better idea to have third party just to find out the boy's true feelings? Should the girl just avoid the guy or just let it be?
@sivanj (1263)
• India
21 Nov 08
i assume that the problem is associated with you. you are the person who is facing it so you should be able to say what it is? but let me tell you todays guys and gals are very different. in todays culture they move together and then call as friends. i don't know if it is love. if at all anyone is in love then they should be daring to say or else the love will die.
@sapphire_b (231)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
i am really confuse, the boy is acting most of the time as the girl's boyfriend, demanding the girls presence and very much interested to know her activities and yet...courting words are missing....would it be ok to let this situation prolong? is it right that the girl should take the dare? what's the best thing to do about this, considering the working environment they have.
