What would you change if you ever get a chance to go back to your past andchange

Well, looking back I am sure there are many things I would Love to change if I could. Some of the things I wish I could change is having so many Health issues that now control the type of job I will have to have for the rest of my life. This would stem back to when I had TB as a child, and then Severe Depression, etc. But since there is really nothing I can do to change these, all I can do, is learn to live my life to the fullest, living it one day at a time, and accepting things as they come.

Accidents, I would try not to have the accidents that have damaged my spine. I've had 4 of them now. So I'm surprised I'm not paralized or immobile, but still, my arthritis in my back is horrible, esp. in winter.

I would change nothing i feel we learn things from our past so changing it just means you will have to learn that leason later in life.

I would try to change my self esteem. It was very low in school because I had no friends. I would not worry about what they thought of me and would stand tall with strength in myself.

If I could go back into the past and change something, I think that I would change the decision that I made regarding a relationship with a man in my life when I was in my early 20s -- a long time ago now. He and I were in the early stages of a relationship and I was significantly younger than he was and, in retrospect, probably somewhat immature. For reasons that I will not elaborate on here, I made a decision that resulted in the relationship ending -- before I think I had really given it a chance. The ironic thing is that for many years I thought that his response to my decision was proof that he did not really care about me. Within the last few years, I discovered information that made me rethink that and regret the action I took at the time. It certainly made me think of the "road not taken." Of course, I realize that making the decision I did then has taken me on the road of life that I have followed for all of these years and I am not saying that I would want to completely alter my life today. But I cannot help but wonder about that road not taken, especially when that one decision has proven to possibly have been more significant than I realized at the time.

I would have not gotten married just because I was pregnant.