Situation

Since this is your husband you're referring to, and you say he shouts everytime you're discussing something, then you're in real trouble. First of all, a husband will be and should be there with you forever. Would you be willing to live with a person who treats you so low for the rest of your life? Surely not. You should do something about it. Tell him you do not tolerate such and demand that he treat you with respect.

Well if this will happen to me, I will keep quiet for some time and won't talk to him unless he lowered his voice to the extent that he is totally calm. And if he asked me why am i not talking to him i will directly tell him that i don't want to be shouted at. Make him feel that you are not happy when he shouts at you.

Well why talk to him when you know he don't like the thing , all that i can say please be considerate yea .

I really would not be able to stand for it for too long. Marriage is about sharing and understanding. You might not always agree but there is no sense in being married if one person has to be right and yells at you when they don't agree with you.

I'm a male but I look things from a different perspective so it wouldn't matter too much for me to help you answer your question. First off I think that your partner and you should be able to talk and discuss about anything. It's not right to avoid discussions that one person doesn't like. If there are some issues going on, both have to talk about it or a relationship would never really work out. It's very important that both of you listen to each other in a calm way. Especially listening is a very important part. Maybe even the main thing. It's not right that he gets angry and if he's shouting all the time. He definately needs to stop that and you have to find out what makes him do that. It could be his temper or personality or it could be stress from work like in most cases. I would try to talk to my partner and discuss the issues and work things out to a solution that works for both. You can't have a relationship with one of the two shouting and getting angry all the time without sorting stuff.

if he gets angry and shouts at me, i will not talk to him for sometime and when he get cool mood ,i will talk to him and asks that why he is angry at that time and tell that i feel bad when he shout at me .then he will tell sorry for shouting me. like this adjustments should be there for marriage i think. then our married life will be good.