New Wives/Girlfriends Dealing with HIS EX WIFE
By wsholland
@wsholland (5)
United States
November 7, 2006 9:51pm CST
Ok ladies,
I want to know if any of you deal with a crazy, vindictive EX WIFE. Actually, I am an ex wife but I have no desire to be involved in my ex husbands life, I have no desire to cause problems/trouble with the new person in his life.
Not so with my husbands ex wife..ugh... sometimes it is just more than one person can deal with. She will call crying about some trivial matter. Overreact, over exaggarate or just lie about situations with the kids to get a negative reaction out of my husband. She does this all the time and Im so sick of her but have to deal with her cordially for the best interest of my step children..
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@spiritfinger (137)
• United States
2 Dec 06
I know all to well about dealing with ex wives. I am one but I do not even talk to my ex husband. I am now remarried and my now husband has 2 ex wives. Both of them are a handful. The one is just a B****. And the other is sooooooooooooooooo childish that when my husband calls her to find out when he can get his girls for the weekend, she won't talk to him.
She won EVERYTHING in the divorce. Even the house (which he bought before they were together). She is supposed to be paying for the house but she is not and it's now wrecking his credit because his name is the only one on the loan. She's the type that when we get the girls from her, or drop them back off to her, we have to meet in a very public place like McDonald's and she brings cops with her!!!!! This girl is the biggest drama queen to ever walk the face of this earth!
@alstaxidermy (269)
• United States
8 Aug 07
Dealt (and still do to a degree) in texas by the name of Tressy (just in case she's reading this!!!! ;) anyways... exact same situation she got everything - he didn't even try to get anything, didn't want it. But, she has broken into our place (actually pitched the smallest, youngest kid over the fence to have his 5 year old self do it!) and so on, called the police to make complaints that I had stolen her 6 year old daughters socks, etc... Even basically brainwashed the children into believing that daddy doesn't love them and is only good for money! Anyways...after many such incidents, we finally left the state, One day, when his kids ar elegally old enough to make thier own decisions, they will have the opportunity to come around and see what the deal is. Until then, neither he nor I nor the kids deserve the constant drama. A tough decision to make, but on that will work out fo rthe best hopefully.
@fedup36 (1)
• Canada
4 Aug 09
I'm an ex-wife but have no intention in causing problems for my ex or his new wife if things are good with out children thats all that matters...
the problem i have is with my financee ex-wife what a hosebag she is.. now that our wedding is fast approaching shes coming up with anything to cause friction and to have the drama and to be center of attention while using their son to do so...
Shes not happy unless shes causing problems and i am getting tired and upset about it.. I know the day of the wedding there will be drama she starts and i am beside myself , i have enough stress trying to make everything perfect without her adding to it..
she needs to grow up and get a life of her own only she can make her life happy..
i was told if she trys anything on the wedding to have her charged with harrassment which may have to happen ..
anyway i am sure others are having the same problem
@annieroos (1845)
• United States
8 Nov 06
I have never had that problem.. i am an ex wife to.. and usually i have always had no problems. with the ex.. Thank God.. They have always been nice to me.. I hope everything works out for you.. Hang in there it will get easier..
