beauty catches the eye... but personality captures the heart...

I beleieve that lasting love cannot be based on physical appearance but grounded in the substance of getting to know each others qualities,the likes ,the dislikes and the similarities.These are the invisible thread that will pull two people together and bing them. The fizzy feeling and butterflies that result from first sight are just effervescence and consequently can last.Similarly the mysterious penpal may be a romantic notion but until you really meet and interact with the person ,you can never know if you truly love the person.

I think the love at first sight might not always be the sight as vibes you get, i think there is a lot we don'r understand about love and its powers, sometimes what we call love at first5 sight can be a vibe we pick up that really is an inner thing anyway...