breaking up

United States
November 21, 2008 9:16pm CST
if i like two people at once, and i'm going out with one of them, should i tell her i like someone else too.
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@sinedox (16)
• United States
27 Nov 08
Well it depends on your seriousness about the relationship. Does the girl your with make you feel like being commited. Can you see yourself witht he other one more?? Would you rather be single and open and able to be with both with this well explained that there are no strings attached. Be careful with this. Basically you don't want to be another stupid guy. And right now, if you care for them both, then you will definately put alot of thought into this before you hurt either of them. ** Remeber just becuase you want to bewith both doesnt make you a bad guy, just do it the right way, make sure they know that you are open to having more than one girl, but dont get mad when she treats you the same and has two guys. I went through the same stuff. And it worked out perfect. But not every girl will agree.
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• China
6 Dec 08
It's wrong of you to trifle with their affections!!! Choose one of them or give up!
@paidreader (5143)
• United States
28 Nov 08
NO! If you like two girls but are already dating one, you should not tell her you like someone else too or the one you're with is going to dump you. If she also knows the other girl, she will probably tell her what's going on and you won't get either girl. I suggest seeing how it goes with the girl you're already dating. If things don't work out between you, then and only then, you can see if the other girl would go out with you.
@ch88ss (2271)
• United States
28 Nov 08
of course you should. it is not fair to the person if they thought they were the only one.
• China
5 Dec 08
i think you'd better not.if you tell her ,she will feel hurt,but if not,she will feel nothing.so which do you would like to chose?