Give and receive

@mengrufa (239)
China
November 21, 2008 9:25pm CST
AS a old saying goes, what goes around comes around .For the most part, we tend to apply this to our lives in a negative way, but in rality , this saying is also true when used positively. To my point more distinctly, I claim that if we always harbor a giving heart instead of a receiving one to the people around , then we will receive more helping hands when it is really needed. however, in real life , we always do the opposite. Of course, itis our instinct to receive in stead of giving . This instinct was formed in the procedure of human develpment of 5000 years, any efforts we make today are espected to receive a better pay tomorrow . But if everyone of us just focus on a repay for what we give, even for giving nothing , then our relationship with others will become apathetic, We will never feel a thread of warmth among our friends , even families. As a matter of fact, in my viewpoint, I do hold that we should give without any expectation of receiving in the future. We should extend our hands and our favor over those who do badly need it without expecting a repay. After all, it is king os good deed and can make our lives more meaningful, through which we can deeply sense the true value of our lives.Thatiswhy when you help someone out through his setbacks , you will feel tremendous happiness from the bottom of your heart.
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
22 Nov 08
Yes there are givers and receivers, givers and takers so to speak, I put myself in the givers category and i know some people look at me as being a fool but I don't look at it that way.infact I sort of feel sorry for those people who don't feel that feeling of giving...I think they are missing out on a lot.
@mengrufa (239)
• China
22 Nov 08
I always feel happy when i can help others, when think of being refused my help by others, i will fell depressed. And i do beleive that , if we all gives a hand for those who are really need , the world will become more beautiful and more joys.