Good enough marriage

i think ladies are more into fairy tales than thereal thing. this is what the theme of a lot of cartoons that are made for girls. make believe of love stories than a prince will come and rescue you. boys are raised in a different way. i am married now for 6 years have a bouncing toddler who is turning three on january. i can say that i have a good enough marriage.

Hi there Candie! Well, sometimes, decision varies depending upon your current situation. When I was young, I always tell myself that I deserve the best and wouldn't settle for anything less. Then came love. It makes sacrifices appear to be minute. It makes compromising a willing act for the sake of the relationship. For the sake of having a life with your loved one. Then came family. When you have a child, or when you already have children, you'll have to decide not only for yourself but only for your children. Whatever it is that will be best for them. I am really lucky that I didn't have to make such hard decision of whether it is worth it to hold on to the marriage or not. I love my husband very much and he makes me happy every way that he can. We don't have a perfect relationship. No one does. But the problems are always overshadowed by how we feel for each other and thankfully, we are able to work things out. I am hoping that it will stay that way for always.