How to be a true friend.?

A good friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out in our times of despair. a friend or a good friend is infact the one who knows your feelings, and shares your sorrows with you. even if you break up, he will still be with you. its not about two bodies but of two souls loving each other forever in a true sense. a friend is one who likes you for whatever you are and accepts you as you are without any measure. he gives us advice which is apt for us and leads us through a cool and happy life. it doesnt matter for a friend if you are poor or rich, if you are dark or fair , if you are thin or fat. all it takes is love and care for being a good friend.

I am 75 years old, I love people but I don't have any friends.I have never made any friends, and have never needed any. For instance I can't imagine sharing a private part of my life with anyone. I would never ask an acquaintance for advice of a personal nature. If I have a problem of a personal nature I work with it until its solved. I've been married to the same woman for over 50 years. We have had our problems, and have worked them through. We are lovers, but not friends. A friend is a personal confidante, and I don't believe there is any value in that sort of relationship.

perhaps you mean 'but there is no easy way to find a true one' or 'but to find a true one is not easy' either way, your sentence before didn't make sense. Maybe your friends just don't understand you.