Present Shaking Anyone?
By someonesmom
@someonesmom (5761)
Canada
November 23, 2008 3:12am CST
When you were a kid, were you allowed to 'shake' the gifts under the tree, or did you have to leave them alone?
Are your children allowed to be present shakers?
Have any gifts ever been broken, due to this practice?
Have you ever figured out what was in the packages, because of your curiosity?
As a child, our gifts weren't placed under the tree, until after we were asleep on Christmas Eve. We did have fun trying to guess on Christmas morning though, before the adults were awake.
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19 responses
@webeishere (36313)
• United States
23 Nov 08
Hi gabs and Gissi.
I had a cat that would open all the gifts under the tree.
She also loved climbing up the trunk of the real trees.
She'd hide in the tree and hiss when we walked by.
HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
24 Nov 08
Hi gabs,
I can't imagine "innocent you" trying to find out about your gifts. The fact that pets love Christmas trees, whether real or artificial, seems to be universal. Anna Belle loves to get right at the back of our artificial one, and take a "long winter's nap." I can just imagine Gissi checking out the gifts. Thanks so much for sharing here.
That's hilarious about your cat, Grandpa Bob. I'm sure there were people startled, to hear hissing coming from the Christmas tree.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
23 Nov 08
In my parents home, we didn't see Christmas gifts till Christmas eve.
I did the same with my daughter.
No shaking, no guessing, no fingerprints...
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
24 Nov 08
Hi pola,
When I was a child, the (real) Christmas tree wasn't even decorated until Christmas Eve. The gifts were placed underneath, after we'd gone to bed. It was a really big deal, for us to wake up and go to the beautifully decorated tree, with all of the pretty packages under it. Great memories!
I like the way your parents did this, and the fact that it became a tradition when you grew up. Your daughter will likely do the same as well.
Thanks so much for your response. Take care.
@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
26 Nov 08
You're just such a tease. I actually like my daughter to 'bug me' about her Christmas gifts too. It's all part of the fun. I think it's great when no matter how old they are, they're never 'too old' for this.
@minnie_98214 (10557)
• United States
23 Nov 08
Well i was a little sticker i would peel back the tape and peek at my gifts. That is why my dad wraps evrything in boxes so we cant peek and sometimes in many many boxes its became a funny game now as to who gets the small gift in the large box ie gift card in a computer box.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
24 Nov 08
Hi minnie,
Well, "The apple doesn't fall far from the tree," in this case. I wonder who you take after? I can well imagine your dad doing the 'many boxes' thing. In fact, it's given me a great idea to try out this Christmas. Do your boys follow the 'peel and peek' method too? It won't be long until Savanna can do the same. Thanks so much for sharing here. Take care.
@minnie_98214 (10557)
• United States
24 Nov 08
My boys have not tried this yet as far as i know but i may just be clueless lol.
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
23 Nov 08
As a child we were never allowed to touch the presents actuall.
But did that stop us? Nahhh! Never actually.
I can recall a couple times actually steaming the tape to open one.
Then I'd rewrap it. I guess that's where I get my art of wrapping from maybe.
I always woke up at like 4 or 5 a.m. to mess with my gifts under the tree.
HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
24 Nov 08
Hi Grandpa Bob,
I can just picture you doing this. I'm sure this is the reason for your gift wrapping adeptness. My sister in law, and her brother, used to do the same thing. By the way, do you happen to have any photos of yourself as a boy, to share here? I'd love to see them. Thanks so much for stopping by. Take care.
@EAStanley (2688)
• United States
23 Nov 08
We weren't either. I am sure that it never stopped us either. *LOL* I am glad that you never got in trouble! (Or, DID you?)! Happy postings to you, too! :)
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@YoungInLove (1254)
• Canada
24 Nov 08
I hate knowing what im getting before christmas. Every year I usually come across a present accidentally and get really upset, I like it to be a surprise. So when the presents are under the tree I dont go near or touch them, Id rather be surprised when I open them.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
26 Nov 08
I love to be surprised too, so would never purposely hunt for my gifts (even as a child.) Some years I've had an idea of what I may be getting, but I'd never try to find out. Thanks for responding here.
@gracie04 (4549)
• Philippines
23 Nov 08
Yeah, we were allowed to shake the gifts under the tree.. even if i shake it for a hundred times or more, i still can't figure out what's inside.. i don't know..maybe my relatives are just good in gift wrapping thingy or should i say making tricks for you not to find out what's inside? haha..
@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
24 Nov 08
Shaking gifts can be a lot of fun, as long as nothing gets broken. Creative wrapping is always a plus, when trying to keep the suspense going. Thanks for your response.
@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
24 Nov 08
My parents always put a few presents under the tree to make us wonder. We were ot allowed to touch or shake them. If we were caught doing so. We would not be allowed to have that present or any. They would be donated to charity.
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@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
26 Nov 08
Yes, my parenst were serious. They were really strict.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
26 Nov 08
If you don't mind my asking, if you have children, what are your 'present shaking' rules for them? Just curious.
@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
26 Nov 08
Wow. Your parents were really serious about keeping everything a surprise. I'm sure you made sure that you didn't touch or shake anything. Thanks for sharing here.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
23 Nov 08
no I was not allowed to touch them, my son did though he was such a stubborn child there was nothing I could tell him not to do, he would do it anyway.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
24 Nov 08
Hi winterose,
We couldn't touch them, because they were put under the tree on Christmas Eve. I'm sure my daughter would've done the same as your son, if given the chance. Thanks for sharing. Take care.
@teapotmommommerced (10359)
• United States
9 Dec 08
At a very young age we stopped getting gifts under the tree and birthday gifts. My twin and I where told we did not deserve gifts so if we did get anything we where told my parents spent the same amount on our older sister as they did on my twin and I but we have to share the gift because there are two of us and it is our fault.
That was not the case, our older sister always got really, really nice gifts and we got crap. When my sister got a horse my parents bought for her, she needed a saddle so she could ride it. All the money went to the saddle so we got nothing, not even something small.
No shaking, no nothing got broken under the tree.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
9 Dec 08
This makes me so profoundly sad, teapotmom. I must say, I just don't understand this kind of behaviour on the part of a parent, or anyone for that matter. If you don't mind my asking, is your older sister your step sister? I mean, are you and your twin stepchildren, to either of the parents you've mentioned here? I'm so very sorry. I do thank you for sharing this with me here. Take care. Hugs.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
16 Dec 08
I am heartbroken for you over this, my friend. I just can't understand how your own parents could do this to you and your twin. It is really generous of you to look after your mom, after all she's put you through. It's such a shame that she won't 'finally change,' and treat you decently like you deserve to be treated. I can understand why you hate her, but do hope that you'll be able to let this go one day, for your own sake. You have a right to be happy.
Big Hugs to you.
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@teapotmommommerced (10359)
• United States
16 Dec 08
No we are not step children we are biological theirs but just not wanted by mom and dad did not know what to do with us.
I take care of mom and have been doing so for 17 years and am tired of her and her crap. She is in a nursing home and spend as little time with her as possible. I have not heard from her in two weekse is so I guess does not need anything. That is the only time she calls me.
I hate her and I know I should let all the angry go, I guess I will when she is gone.
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@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
26 Nov 08
Hmm, I dont think we really did shake the gifts. If we were really curious and poking wouldnt be enough to identify the contents then we give it a little shake and when the giver tells us not to because it might break the thing inside then we're good cause at least we have an idea on what we'll get.
Though, its really a no brainer on what we will get on Christmas. Its always either 2 or 3 shirts, or a bag. There were a few Christmases when we didnt really expect what we got and then there was that one Christmas when the whole family just went to the mall and buy the gift we want on the spot.^_^
Happy Holidays.^_^
@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
26 Nov 08
Hi bjcyrix,
It's good to be warned when something is breakable. It's great to hear that you've always been happy with all of your gifts. Happy Holidays to you too! Thanks so much for sharing here. Take care.
@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
27 Nov 08
It's 'the thought that counts,' right. Such a wonderful time of year to think of others. Take care.
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@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
27 Nov 08
Always happy with the thought that someone cares enough to show it to me by giving me a gift. Though there were some shirts that were a tad bit small for me. I try to squeeze in them and at least wear them every now and then when Im on the slim side.^_^
You're welcome and take care always too.^_^
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@EAStanley (2688)
• United States
23 Nov 08
We were never allowed to. I am sure that we must have tried to, anyway. It surely makes you curious about what is under the tree! *LOL* ;) Merry Christmas! :)
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
24 Nov 08
Curious is right! That's why our gifts were always put under, after we were in bed on Christmas Eve. I appreciate your response, and Merry Christmas to you too.
@mariposaman (2959)
• Canada
23 Nov 08
When I was a child my brother and sister and I would find the presents and gently unwrap them to see what they were. We were very good at it and rarely got caught, or at least our parents did not let on. When we were older we were allowed to open one present each the night before. That did not stop me from shaking and guessing the contents of presents, that is half the fun. I hate those free for alls where people just go crazy for a few minutes and open them all up at once.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
26 Nov 08
You're among some of the respondents who wrap and re wrap their gifts. I had no idea that so many actually do this. The opening one gift on Christmas Eve, is a good idea for those who just can't wait. I hate the "free for alls" too. It's much more enjoyable done in an orderly fashion, so that everyone can experience the excitement of having what they've given opened. We're given one gift each, and everybody watches while the person opens it. That way the spirit of giving and receiving is made to be something special. Thanks so much for sharing here.
@mindym (978)
• United States
24 Nov 08
Guilty! My two brothers and I would shake our gifts and try to guess what they were, and would sometimes be right. So finally, my Mom put codes instead of names on our presents so we didn't know who's was whose :) She has not sone this for quite some time now because we are way older, but it was a creative idea :)
@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
26 Nov 08
Yet another mom with a great idea. Moms are always very smart about these things. Thanks for telling me about the typo. I really hate to make them too. Thanks so much for your response.
@anewxdisguise (1)
• United States
24 Nov 08
My parents never put the gifts under the tree until after we were asleep on Christmas Eve. Now, when I'm 19 and my brother is 15, they still wait until we're asleep to put the gifts under the tree.
However, when we were younger, we would search the house high and low for the gifts. I never did this, because I wanted to be surprised on Christmas morning, but my brother had become a master at upwrapping gifts without ripping the paper, then wrapping them up again. So be sure that you hide the gifts in a secret place that's difficult to find!
@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
26 Nov 08
I think this is a really nice tradition to have. This is such a wonderful memory for me. I too like to be surprised, as does my daughter (now seventeen.) I don't have to worry about her peeking ahead of time, and never did. My nephew is a 'different story.' He once told my daughter something special that I was getting her. He'd overheard this from his mom. I was very disappointed that the surprise was spoiled, although she loved the gift anyway. Welcome to myLot, and thanks for your response.
@ElusiveButterfly (45940)
• United States
9 Dec 08
Our presents weren't put under the tree until we were sleeping on Christmas Eve too! We weren't allowed to get out of bed before the adults though. So we just peeked at the living room from our bedroom doors.
My kids were the curious ones. They woke early in the morning on Christmas Day. I usually went to bed at about 3 a.m. because I procrastinated and put off the wrapping of the gifts until the last minute. The kids woke at 5 a.m. and thundered down the stairs. I would hear them moving the gifts and reading the labels to one another. The would then run up the stairs and ask if they could open their gifts.
Their father always came over on Christmas morning to watch the kids open their gifts. He wasn't due until 6:30. I told the kids they could open their stocking gifts first and had to wait for their father. They really were so excited that they could hardly contain themselves. But, they waited for their father to arrive and for me to crawl out of bed to join them downstairs.
@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
11 Dec 08
Hi Elusive,
It does my heart good, to see that you have such warm childhood memories too. Actually ours are similar, except for the fact that we were allowed into the living room on our own, to open our stockings. Since the stockings contained 'only' edible treats, we could even eat to our hearts content. This was the only day of the year we were allowed to have sweets, that early in the morning. Of course, there was a 'big' Christmas orange too, or a tangerine. My mom had high hopes that we'd also eat our fruit.
You've established some wonderful memories with your own kids too. Thanks so much for sharing here. I wish you and yours a wonderful Christmas.
Hugs
@highflyingxangel (9225)
• United States
27 Nov 08
I was terrible at this as a child. Actually I'm still bad at it. I tend to get rather curious and leave them alone when everyone else is awake. However, I get really excited on Christmas eve and tend to find it hard to sleep. So when everyone goes to bed, I get up and start shaking. I haven't broken anything and I've actually gotten pretty good at figuring out what is in the packages from shaking them. I'm just that good!
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
27 Nov 08
That's a good plan, and the others will never know. I like to 'investigate' my gifts on Christmas Eve, once they're under the tree. My daughter and I both do this. Thanks for sharing. Take care.
@Remembering1996 (2219)
• United States
9 Dec 08
No we wern't allowed to touch the presents under the tree. I know that when noone was home I would try and sneak by slowly tearing the clear tape off to open the gift to peek at it. Well and behold I got caught one day and I almost didn't have a christmas that year. My mom was furiouse with me I never will forget it she yelled. I never did it again after that. My son hasn't done it that I know of but I know what to look for if he did for I did it and you can tell when the gift has been tampered with plus it spoils what your getting.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
9 Dec 08
I've heard so many here mention doing this. I just wasn't interested, as I always wanted to be surprised. I'm sure your mom was really able to get her point across. I would imagine that tampered with gifts, wouldn't be hard to detect. Have a wonderful Christmas, and thanks for your response.
@manunulat (604)
• Philippines
24 Nov 08
There are no rules whether we are allowed to shake or not but when a new gift is under a tree, my parents would remind which is "fragile" so it's up to us if we're gonna stick to that curiosity or not. It's not our practice to touch the gifts either when it's not yet time for Christmas. My mother has a way not to name the gifts yet until it's the night before and I usually suspect it's just the same item coz she has a personal tradition of giving the same kind of gift to those coming in our house. It's not our practice to shake but we are reminded for stuff that are "fragile".
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
26 Nov 08
Your mother is very clever at this. Good for her! I like the way you're told about fragile gifts too. Your parents have really thought of everything. I appreciate your response here.
@xomgitskamax (937)
• United States
26 Nov 08
I used to shake all the presents i got and still do sometimes. Nothing has been broken due to this but its fun to do it. It makes me feel like i'm again :D
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
26 Nov 08
I still like to do some "present shaking" at times too. You're right. It does make one feel young again, and it's a great feeling. Thanks for your response.