how do you express pain??
By moki_tabor
@moki_tabor (11)
Philippines
November 23, 2008 6:44pm CST
have you ever felt betrayed before? has a loved one caused you so much pain that you start to question her love for you?? how do you express it?? i usually go through stages, first i feel anger. i feel so betrayed that i become so angry.i get angry with even with little things. after, all i think of is revenge, getting back at someone who caused me the hurt, making her feel the pain i feel. then i sulk into depression. i ask myself why? why? why? why i deserve the pain? why was i betrayed? i start to question my self worth. i shy away from people because i become easily hurt. i avoid friends as much as possible and it makes me feel isolated. like i cease to exist. last thing i go through is acceptance. in the end, there is nothing you can do but accept whatever comes your way. you can never change the past. all you can do is learn from it, grow from the experiences that comes with it.
4 responses
@subha12 (18441)
• India
25 Nov 08
I was betrayed big time. But it was not by any love. Rather i was never been into love. I was betrayed by my so called best friend. i never could understand he was taking advantage of me. when he thought it is no more possible to gain, he started behaving badly. a cheat. I will never forgive him. I believe he will get lesson froM GOD
@Kumaresan (450)
• Malaysia
24 Nov 08
hello friend...
well, last time when i want to express my pain, i'll keep it in my heart and i won't share it to anyone because i don't want others to feel my pain but nowadays, i really can't keep the pain within me anymore... i will totally burst myself into tears... imagine what would the guy suffers when he cries... oh my god... it's simply not good to keep the pain within us... try to share with your trusted friends, family members or even your pet brothers or sisters...
@franfranflan (82)
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24 Nov 08
mmm your experience sounds familiar to me, but i do have the first 2 stages, but the last one changes to an state of numbness, where i dont feel anything towards that person but sorry, sorry for them being the way the are, how they live their lives making other missery, thats how I have dealt with my pain, and now there is none pain left. but one thing like u said, I do take this as an experience to learn and be precautious, but all ppl are nt the same u know. keep your chin up and continue to be your lovely person, because no one deserves to have your valuave time to be wasted in hatrage.
bless.x