how can I ruin someone's life? - inexchange for a really bad haircut

@oyenkai (4394)
Philippines
November 23, 2008 9:33pm CST
That's a joke (half meant). The guy...gay...she-man that gave me this haircut is an azz. I'd like to make that person's life miserable for at least a couple of weeks but I don't know what to do. Yeah, I'm THAT mad. I posted in my community forum about my experience in the salon so that that person wouldn't be ruining any body else's life. I have a natural curly hair and all I wanted was a nice shape. (The pic I'm using is 6 months old so I wanted to have a trim)...
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8 responses
@Impervious (1147)
• United States
25 Nov 08
It is hair and the funny thing is IT GROWS. Are you really serious. If that is the biggest problem you have now then I would love to have it.
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
24 Nov 08
That's simple. Get his mobile phone number then pretend that you just want it in case you'd want to get another haircut from him or you want to recommend his service to your friends. Then text away with him then (..again) pretend that you're a goodloooking man who's interested to him on a personal level. Then keep texting.. Few days after, invite him to go somewhere like a date of something. Obviously, you don't need to go. Let him wait for nothing. But that's just too mean, so i leave it all up to you.
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@oyenkai (4394)
• Philippines
24 Nov 08
and that also means I'll have to spend on him, then that's just being mean to myself haha. I was entertained by the thought though!
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
24 Nov 08
You'll only spend for your load and that's all. You can do it in one day to be able to convince him to meet up if you're skilled enough. Be descriptive as possible.
24 Nov 08
Modstar, that is evil. That is negative karma. You shouldn't go around encouraging people to do evil. Check yourself before you wreck yourself.
@tlb0822 (1410)
• United States
24 Nov 08
The good thing out of all this is that hair grows back. Yeah it sucks that you got a bad hair cut, but at least it isn't permanent like a tattoo or something. I've gotten a bad haircut before and was furious with the stylist. I just made a note not to ever go back to that stylist again because they did such a horrible job. Good luck, and hope that your hair gets back to normal soon.
@nicholejade (2430)
• Canada
25 Nov 08
If it was that bad you shouldn't of paid for the cut and told them that you didn't like. Why come back and be vindictive to the person. You will always find someone that cuts really bad and you just absolutely hate the hair cut but you will also find there are really good ones out there. However keep in mind that they cut alot of hair everyday so they are not going to be perfect on everyones cut. It is a tiring job and just be thankful that you are not doing it all day long and how ever many hours that they do in a week. I went to one stylist years ago and it was so horrible the only thing that I could do was shave my head bald and let it grow out again. Keep in mind hair does grow back so don't worry about it. Least to say I never paid for the haircut and if you didn't like yours you shouldn't of paid either.
@oyenkai (4394)
• Philippines
25 Nov 08
I didn't know it was that bad until the next day. I told him that he shouldn't blow dry my hair and just put some gel so that I can see the effect but he insisted that he needed to find out if he cut it properly so he HAD to blowdry my hair - which makes it straight. It was only the next morning when I discovered the horrible fact. Next time, I'd make sure they don't blow dry my hair - because it doesn't really matter how it looks straight exactly because I don't wear it straight. Thanks for commenting in my discussion!
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@MaraLuna (10)
24 Nov 08
Are you saying he did it on purpose? Or was it just poor communication between you? If it was poor communication, who was poor at it? Were you, perhaps, not clear enough beforehand, not assertive enough during? Or was he, perhaps, just not able to take direction well, or not listening? Or did he do it on purpose just to hurt you? If he did it on purpose, then he certainly deserves a negative review on yelp.com. Do they have that in your area? Or you can call him and tell him you are very disappointed in how things turned out. Tell him how you think he was at fault and that you are very unhappy to the point where you're thinking of writing a negative review on Yelp.com. Maybe he will apologize and your negative feelings for him will disappear.
@oyenkai (4394)
• Philippines
24 Nov 08
Nope, not here in the Philippines. I think he thought that he was doing a good job but failed to consider that I have curly hair, so it would only look nice if it were straight or blow dried. That only means that he doesn't really know his job that well.
• India
24 Nov 08
LOOL cheeeeeewing guuuuuuuum!
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@oyenkai (4394)
• Philippines
24 Nov 08
sounds like a good idea :D but somebody already told me off and I'm finding my peace. Still love the idea! hahaha
• India
25 Nov 08
well now u can scare the hell out of her!
@jonesy123 (3948)
• United States
24 Nov 08
I know how you feel. It's crazy if you can't get somebody to cut your hair properly. If possible you can write a review about the place and the person who cut your hair, if there is such an online option for your area. Obviously, if somebody looks for a recommendation as to where to get a cut or from whom... well, word of mouth has a lot of power. You can gripe to a couple of people in town, lol. But yeah, just like the previous poster suggested, try and find peace. Take a deep breath, try and calm down... it's just not worth it. Your hair will grow back... and who knows, maybe you'll wake up tomorrow or next week, and you actually like your cut. Sometimes it's a matter of getting used to the new do;)
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@despompa (472)
• Philippines
24 Nov 08
that was really a bad joke or some sort of a practical joke. but i think you should move forward now. the damage has been done and you can't put back the cut hair. all you can do is to learn from your mistake, and avoid having that guy-gay do of touch your hair ever again. making that gay guy's life miserable, is not worth it.