Can you marry a man you never made love to

Nigeria
November 24, 2008 9:43am CST
My religion always preach on abstinence until after marriage, but i doubt I can do it, because I can't survive a man that can satisfied me and if I have to abstain I do I know his capability?
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@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
24 Nov 08
I wouldn't buy a car without taking it for a test drive first to see what it can do, and I sure as hell am not going to marry a woman without seeing what she can do either. If she is lousy in bed, you are stuck with her, not to mention that if you do divorce her, she can likely take you to the cleaners and get half of everything you own (or MORE). I guess it works for some people, but I would never do it this way...
• United States
26 Nov 08
definitely not...but being married is hard, and knowing that your partner is good in bed before hand is one less thing you have to worry about...LOL
@celticeagle (166911)
• Boise, Idaho
24 Nov 08
Think what our ancestors felt? This was the norm then. I think purity is a good thing. alot of todays norms are not necessarily good for us. We are spoiled. I feel there is absolutely nothing wrong with abstinence. It can only help you respect the sanctity of marriage and hold true to one another.
• Nigeria
26 Nov 08
Abstinence is not bad, it always the best way out, but it is only possible for 2 people who have abstain to really survive it because whatever way they made of it will be the best way ever for them. but it is not going to be possible for one who have had an experience with others
• Malaysia
25 Nov 08
Actually this time its hard to find couple that married which it both of them not love each other...normally they choose the one who they love to..
• India
1 Apr 09
hi there Before marriage try to sleep with him for a night, you can know the capability of him. nothing will wrong in that .................