Fighting/Arguments

My relationships have always had fights, but that's because I'm stubborn and opinionated and I tend to date stubborn and opinionated women. And relationships are compromises that must be fought over (or not). I agree that it is healthy to have fights and arguments as long as the aren't violent, but I also don't think it is unhealthy not to fight just so long as you are both open and communicative with each other. If you're on the same page, then there's no need to fight or argue. But if one or both of you are bottling things up, that is not healthy and I think leads to the end of relationships.

It's not really about fighting so much as it is about debating. When you debate someone, you learn more about yourself and the other person. If the debate turns into a fight, there's something wrong. Happy MyLotting!

maybe it's a ways of knowing who your partner is. by arguing you learn about his characteristics, and by then, you will also learn how to deal with him. Before I met my husband, he and his ex-gf, as he told me, they have never argued about anything, he says it was odd, coz he doesn't really know who his partner is...

I think you can be fine without fighting. I wish my boyfriend never fought, but it's life and people aren't the same and will have different views on things that will cause some arguements.

I think its normal for a couple to fight and keep arguing each other..but its good too for a couple which do not fight each other..evrythings are depend to the couple to make a good decision..

I personally think everyone at some point fights, but just because you don't doesnt mean there is anything wrong with you or your relationship. I had a guy that I wa kind of dating and we were just being with each other csually for 3 years, we never fought one time. That made it very enjoyable to be togther. However I would not marry him, even when he asked because if we didnt fight, I couldn't imagine how our first fight would be, I felt we were too compatible. Thus I have found a new love and even if we fight, the makes up's are far sweeter and worth all the turbulence. ** So all in all, there is nothing wrong with not fighting, every couple and relationship is always going to be different.

i would say that little fight in a relationship makes it more lively and healthy. coz you get to talk to each other, explain what went wrong and make up to a sweet solution to keep the relationship stronger.

i don't want fights. Rather, i want to resolve issues and not not just shrug it off like nothing happened. Sometimes, discussions turn into heated debates but we both try to calm down to be less emotional. My boyfriend barely tries to resolve issues. He just goes silent but the issues only pile up and gets brought-up in the future. So I do the 'heating-up', and he extinguishes it. That way, we arrive at terms that benefit both of us.