do you tell aman or not?

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hi my loters i would really like alot of responses from the men sense us women have a hard time understanding you sometimes.i was married 25 years ago and have a daughter with this man he had i very good job and i did not .i left my daughter with him when she was a year old i trusted him and he did a good job with her .we had a lot of problems and i left.i have been contacted by them both she wants to see me and i think he does to .after talking to him i realize i still care for him very much .i have kind of told him i care about him and my daughter.i dont know if he understands what i am saying does it have to be spelled out for men should i tell him or will this push him away? we are very far away from one another and i would like to be closer but have three children now that are important to me.please tell me what you think?