hi,is there someone in your heart
@whitesnowflying (40)
China
November 24, 2008 11:01pm CST
hi ,my friends,recently i have something in trouble.
i love a man for a long time,he is my teacher.he is so handsome and rich,what's more ,also kind to everyone ,so there are so many girls love him.
but i am just one of his students,not beautiful,not slender,there is a big difference between us ,so i don't want to tell him that i love him.
someone says the true love is that you want him happy,not just want him to come together with you.i really don't know what should i do.
do you have the same experience or what will you do in such situation
3 responses
@dncmanning (770)
• United States
25 Nov 08
I think its natural to feel an attraction toward a teacher and I think most people have had that type of crush- can I ask how old you are. If you are in high-school don't say a word to this teacher that is very dangerous terrority. If you are in college that is a little different but still you have no idea what kind of man he is outside of class. Wait until you are no longer in his class and see if you still have the same feelings- if so it might be worth telling him- but again if this is a high-school thing, you are in way over your head.
Good luck to you.
@whitesnowflying (40)
• China
25 Nov 08
thank you for your writing
i am 22 years old and i am a postgraduate student.He is my foreign teacher,i just feel comfortable with him ,we have a lot same hobbies.....
as you said,i don't know what kind of man he is outside of class,so maybe what ia can do now is just wait
@dncmanning (770)
• United States
25 Nov 08
At 22 I think you are at an age where you can decide for yourself what works for you but I still stand by waiting until you are no longer in his class and see what happens from there.
Thank you for the best response and I hope all works out for you. Good luck.
@whitesnowflying (40)
• China
25 Nov 08
he just told us he doesn't have a girlfriend,but if he doesn't love me,maybe he doesn't want to talk to me any more...
love is really a puzzle
@Robertomas (18)
• South Korea
25 Nov 08
yu can be his lover. keep in mind , none but the brave deserves the fair.
I think the thing is the mental relation more than material.
try, knock , and door will be opend to you.
@whitesnowflying (40)
• China
25 Nov 08
really thank you
your words give me a lot of courage
he told me he would quit his job in one months,so maybe when he leave me ,i can't see him everyday,maybe i will tell him
life is so short,so i will try everything in my life
