When do you want to get married?

Beautiful house - A beautiful flat
China
November 25, 2008 1:50am CST
I want to get married when I have enough money to support my family.Because I have to afford their expenditure.I ought to have a higher-paying job and have a big house of my own.Then I will seek for my lover.It is a long time when I can perform them.Useful as it might be,we have a motive to do anything.It's only been found in the attitude of the daily working.Estimating that I will get married nearly at 30 years old.
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8 responses
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
26 Nov 08
Hello wgx. It is good that you have set an aim for your future life about marriage. Yeah, it is not late for men to get married at thirty or more. Before getting married, one needs to get a good and stable job to make some money as it is one of the most important things in life. Well, I got married in my late twenties, but I have to say that I did not have enough money, just enough to support my family life, or so-so standard life. But I think that if you have to get a big house of your own before getting married, it will be a more difficult job. Why not get a house of your own together with your girlfriend or future wife? This way, it will make your life easier. Anyway, I wish you lucky and happy in your choice.
• China
26 Nov 08
No worry, friend. Everyone has his or her partner somewhere. When the time is mature for them, they will show up and get together. Good luck to you and good night.
• China
26 Nov 08
My dear friends: I look forward to the perfect life.I hope I can lead a happy life.You point out it is a difficult job to get a big house of my own before geting married.It is right.I am a bit worried I can not find a girlfriend who is willing to make a lving with me. All the best.I wish your family are happy.
@simon611 (598)
• China
25 Nov 08
Yes,I share your opinions,I have no money now,most of my friends have married,I must earn enough money.It is a long way for us to go,we should make full use of our time and earn as more money as we can.I believe that you will do very well in your work and get enough money. Have a nice day. I love mylot.
• China
25 Nov 08
How long do you intend to get married?Two years ,three years or longer.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
That was my idea too but when I got at that age I just decided to settle down despite my condition of financially not ready. I think it comes with a certain age that being single is not making you happy anymore and just decide to jump in. For now I may not be rich but I am happy with my family.
@mykmari_08 (2464)
• Philippines
25 Nov 08
I got married more than five years ago, when I was still 27 years of age. I had a job then and now but my husband was unemployed then. I'd say that we weren't rushed into marriage at all; but I admit that we barely had funds from the start. And somehow, I'm quite regretful for us not having our own house first before deciding to get married; because until now, we're still renting. I admire you for having this clearcut view on how you'd like to tackle things and plan not only your future, but also for your future family. Having one's own home will definitely ease you from the burden of paying the monthly rent. Aside from this, you could do anything with your house as you please because it's your own. Also, supporting a family and raising kids isn't a joke, particularly during these crisis-stricken times. Others would even seek for second and third jobs just to sustain their families' needs, not to mention the cost of sending a child to school nowadays. Admittedly, our daughter (and still our only child) is three years old at present, but we still don't have any savings for her education. Hopefully, we'll be able to come up with a great sum of money by next year before we enroll her in a local school.
• China
25 Nov 08
According to your ideas,I admit that life is a profound subject.Though I am a student,I have known the meaning of the marriage and have taken the pressure of life.I wish you had a happy family.
@PRIYANK1992 (1677)
• India
25 Nov 08
When I earn at least Rs.1 lakh per month then I thinks about marriage otherwise I can't.And at the age of 27 or 28 I marry not before and not later.
• China
25 Nov 08
I hope I can get married at the age of 27 or 28 like you.But now I must fulfill my studying.Do you have a girl friend?
@pinks17 (2192)
• Philippines
25 Nov 08
I was married once,got annuled and had a bad experience with my ex-husband.NOw I have a live in partner and honestly I told him that I will marry him if he has enough money in his bank account for our annulment..he reacted differently at first.But who can blame me if I don't want to get married regardless to my present partner or to anyone..due to failed marriage.
• China
25 Nov 08
If your boy friends don't have enough money to get married,but you love him deeply,would you mind that? If you don't mind that,but your parents don't approve of your decision.What can you deal with?
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
26 Nov 08
That is a very good plan... you only need to stay focus in order to achieve your dream... but try not to stick to it 100%... there may be situations where you need to deviate and that might make your life happier and more fulfilled...
@carmela0210 (1591)
• Philippines
26 Nov 08
as much as possible i want to get married not until i reached my 27th birthday, i just think its the ideal age!!but aside from that, i want to be financially, spiritually and emotionally stable, even if my husband to be can give security at me, still i want i have my own money!!i want to spend it to my family!!