extra marital afairs

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A single man fell in love wd a married grl...n soon the grl started luvin him too...initially all was well..but soon the grl wanted more thn js n affair...the guy was not ready to commit..his reason being dat his family wil nvr accpt a maried grl...this lady was ready to divorce her husband n b wd ds guy 4ever...to which ths man was still not ready to marry her quoting family issues. ALTHOUGH THE GUY HAD MADE IT VERY CLEAR IN THE BEGINING ITSELF THAT MARRIAGE WAS NOT POSSIBLE. When he was so sure of wht he wanted..then shd he have taken their relationship further ? is he justified in starting n continuing this relationship whn he has ths commitment phobia ? now their relationship is over...the guy is living on fine...the grl left the city n still cannot live wd her husband...although she has not yet divorced her husband. WAS IT THAT GRL'S FAULT THAT SHE WANTED COMMITMENT FRM HIM ? IS THE GUY USING HIS FAMILY AS AN XCUSE ? WAS IT REALLY LOVE THEY SHARED ? OR WAS HE USING HER TO STAISFY HIS OWN EMOTIONAL N PHYSICAL NEEDS ? IS THE GUY JUSTIFIED IN NOT COMMITING ?