Can a lovers becomes friends again??

It is possible but, it depends how the break up was made. Most breakups are painful, resentful and many other negative feelings are connoted with it. So if you are determined to make peace with then why not but I doubt if the other part is willing. But if you can reconcile as friends then I think that is a much better choice.

For me, it is very possible I once was in this situation. He got married to somebody else, even it was very difficult for me but I overcame it. Now, I become a godmother of their kids and we are in good terms with his wife too. But sometimes, if I can remember the past my heart still has feelings but till then we are just friends. Each of us has moved on and happy as friends. It depends, though some people hold a grudge and pain, but then it's easier if we learn to let go and move on.

it is dependent on the individuals. But I guess hard efforts are no doubt needed to be friends with your ex. there should be some emotion always left.

This really depends on how close you were as friends and on your relationship as more than friends. It also depends on the people, different personalities cause different circumstances might or might not work, who knows?

Yes. But only as friends and not as deep-level friends. What is wrong with being friends with the man/woman who used to be a part of your life? Just because you broke up owing to differences of opinion or that somebody new changed your heart, it's not right for you to just forget the person who you used to love or if not, who made you smile sometime in your yesterday. Saying hello when you both meet on the streets unexpectedly, or that both of you accidentally bumped into each other while malling, is not bad at all. In fact, this will show good breeding and finesse in one's character.

yes i believe people that were once lovers can be friends after a break up.it seems to work better if they have not seen one another for a while .i dont know why but it seems that time helps to heal any thing that may have hurt before.it then leaves room for forgivness and then that friendship.

as for me , yes it is possible. although it takes a lot of time. When all is heal, its amazing that you can still smile and talk with the person who loves you and loved you at the same time before. I experienced something like this...i never talk to him after our break- up. But then again after 3 years passed. We bump at each other again, then i smiled and talked with him as if there was no animosity happened between us. Since then we became friends again but not as intimate as before... it's like talking with a long lost friend and updating with each others lives and walk away like nothing happened. The good thing there is that, i felt relieved that meeting him again and talking with him again makes me more free of guilt and i proved something to myself that i am over him. At times, we texted each other like friends do.

Hi! I dont see any reason why that cant be possible. Matter of fact, my eldest son's godmother used to be my girlfriend. And as of now she and her husband are good friends with me and my wife. But as long as being lovers again is concerned, i don't think so. I have too much respect for our friendship right now it doesn't cross my mind. ever! really! :)