How to get through the hardships of your life?
By wangguoxiang
@wangguoxiang (114)
China
November 25, 2008 8:16pm CST
In fact,one could even say that the more successful one's life is,the more problems and hardships one must have overcome.The ability to work through difficult situations and unfortunate events only makes one stronger and more capable.Given that the road to happiness always contains obstacles and setbacks,we should be well prepared for the hardships that life inevitably brings,and abandon the idea that life is smooth or easy.We must accept the fact that failures are unavoidable,whether they are failures in examinations,in finding a job or carrying out a task.People who accept that their life will not always be simple or calm are better able to handle problems when they arise.Those who are upset by each and every small setback-and there are many people with such attitude-do not have much potential.Failure is mother to success as it can strengthen one's will.Whose who can draw lessons from failure are destined for sucess.
3 responses
@simon611 (598)
• China
26 Nov 08
We will come accross many difficulties in life,how to deal with them?I think we should have confidence and courage,they are the most important in dealing with hardships.We should fear failures,for they will make us more exprienced.Don't lose heart when face difficulties.
Have a nice day.
@wangguoxiang (114)
• China
26 Nov 08
Thanks,my dear friend.We are then more likely to come up with a possible solution.In general,it is failure that encourages us to work harder which eventually leads to success.Good luck!
@jimmy2404 (8)
• Vietnam
28 Nov 08
Personally,to be honest with you I have met such many difficulties as well as challenges that I fell breathless,tired and losed my confidence because I,you know,tried hard to gain success but my result...Im very sad,I seemed to cry in my soul,cry in my heart.It hurted me so deeply,which every night I used to cry hopelessly as the lyric of the song" I cry".Most unfortunate things happened to me,I fell.But I came across some pages of the book with named sound like"Im good and you too!" by Adam Koo,a famous writer in Singapore. After,I recognised that I actually didnt give my time and my focus on learning as well as my aim,you know,a example of these is that I often listen to music while learning and...but at this time I reckoned, I really tried my best.For now,I know my fault and Im repare it step by step even if my heart still hurts so much after all.Therefore,as far as Im concerned that I and you someday will success if we have strong wills to overcome,all failures have their own reasons,the most important things we find our mistakes for success later on.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
28 Nov 08
No pains, no gains. I think that every success is based on a lot of pains or hardships before we get onto the road to success. Yes? Thank you for the discussion.
