How will I ease the pain i've been through
By leicyn
@leicyn (96)
Philippines
November 26, 2008 4:26am CST
I've been to a relationship for almost four years. It was full of dreams, full of plans. everything goes smooth as we both wanted to be. But nightmare came into our life and theres no second chance between us. It happen just like a thunder. in a glimpse in a flash, our dreams, our plan, our hope turns to black. it hurt me. The whole part of me. Now its hard for me to stand again. No where to turn and i don't even know how to love once more. I want to forgive and forget but everytime i think what i've been through right now. Its hard to forget. Now can someone tell me hoe wo ease the pain i've been through?
4 responses
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
27 Nov 08
It takes time to pick up the pieces of your life. Memories will always be there, feeling the pain and the hurts when you remember. Pass is pass set it free, fly high and spread your wings. The pains and the hurts will help you feel stronger. Get your strength to God. All your burdens and your worries. Cry it out if you want too it helps to release the bitterness and the anger. Just go on with life. face the fears of loneliness,only time can heal the wounds and to forget.You still a life to make. Nothing stays permanent in this world but yourself. God be with you! Start smiling!
@leicyn (96)
• Philippines
27 Nov 08
Yes it is. And its hard to pick all those pieces. I hope and i pray that someday somehow i will learn to forgive so that i can ease the pain and get out of it. Yes there is no permanent in this world. and Thank you so much. I hope that i can fixed all the pieces in me..
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
26 Nov 08
I think you need to pamper yourself more. Go out and enjoy life as a single lady. Meet up with your friends and go clubbing. Of course it will not ease the pain when you go home and find yourself all alone again but it will help as you go along. Life is always full of heartaches and the sad thing is we all have to go through with it. It's just a matter of how soon or how long will it take. In the future, you'll find yourself laughing at this matter because i'm pretty sure you'll meet someone whom you'll love much more than your previous boyfriend. Just let time heal your heartache and you'll be fine.
@whelsw (8)
• Singapore
6 Jul 09
"Acceptance" is the key..bcoz you can nolonger live the past but rather to move on and reaching fort to those things which are before..
@Enascent (40)
• United States
10 Aug 09
Prayer and positive meditations has got me through the roughest times, even when I didn't have a strong support system to fall back upon. You can learn to love once more but remember to give your heart a chance to heal before getting into a serious relationship. Maybe you need more time to yourself to rediscover yourself. One thing I have learned as a Christian woman is to never put all my confidence in people or anything tangible at all. It is important to be mentally, emotionally, physically, and emotionally prepared for any situation, however, you can't plan everything. You cannot allow yourself to become so attached to a person or a thing. Love not only means to forgive. You probably won't forget what you have been through in that relationship. Sometimes love mean to simply let go of the hurt, the pain, the fear and the resentment the situation has caused in your life. Only then will you be able to move forward. Don't think about what you don't. Think about what you got left. It could've been a lot worse. You have to learn this valuable lesson. Never forget to count your blessings.
