MISS INVISIBLE: have you ever been loner?

yeah!!when i was on my first day on college!!im really used with high school and mostly my classmates there was my classmates too way back grade school, so it was really hard for, i cant deal with it for some time, especially that my classmates are in a group, mostly they came from a same high school!!but now my classmates way back college are one of my closest friends now!!

Yes I've been quite a number of times already. Sometimes I really just separate myself to be alone and to find myself in solitude. Doing this helps me understand myself more. Sometimes I see being alone as a positive thing but not all the time because we need company too.

I like to be alone. I don't mind that. I don't much care for people anyway unless I know them. Even the people I know and who could be called my friends are not really the kind of people I want to be with. Cheers!!

I have always been a loner, I just never realised it until the last couple of years. I am not happy being this way but it just seems to stick to me like glue and there is nothing I can do about it! One day I will be happy.

hey, well yeah it does happen to me sometimes.. but i always try to get something to do as a break from the loneliness. smiley,

oh yes i've been a loner. when im new in public, i would be a loner for few days, sometimes, minutes or hours... :)

I am a loner. And sometimes I feel really sad being one. The only thing that keeps me away from being lonely is this laptop I am using. I divert myself into things I could surf into or downloading anything to read from the web. I joined myLot to spend some of my time especially when I am alone. But still it helps me know my self more whenever I am alone at home. I realize my dreams, I learn my mistakes. I figure out both my strengths and weaknesses. Being a loner is not a bad thing after all.

Hello xenybb, I consider myself as a loner for i like to be alone by myself most of the time. During my first day at work i feel that way, when i dont know anyone in my work and the worst is all of my co workers are males and married with decade and two decade age gap. At first i dont know what to do for i dont know how to befriend with them, i am always their center of attraction to them, i cried alone and pray harder to God to overcome my loneliness i felt and it lasted for two years to recovered myself. I learn how to adjust now and be strong for that experience. Until now i am still working at that company for more than 7 years up to present and i am more happy. I guess experience is the best teacher.

Oh yes I perfectly well know about this because I myself have experienced it. I went to college in a new city so everything was new, the college, the city. I am a very shy person so I didnt know how to befriend people either. So it was all very depressing for me. To top it all the city was far from my home so I couldnt even go home every weekend. I used to cry almost everyday and even now when I remember those early days of mine, I feel so depressed. It is just by God's grace that I got through that whole phase. However, as time passed I did make some friends and then it was all very good. but oh the early days were llike hell