Virginity not Important
By Iliaaz
@Iliaaz (357)
Malaysia
November 26, 2008 7:33am CST
Some people are very concern about virginity no matter man or woman. Some people are not. They believe virginity is important in their life. They believe virginity is an honour to them. And they will keep for it until they get married. However, some people do not care whether they still virgin or not. How about you?
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7 responses
@TerryYuan (229)
• China
26 Nov 08
i don't think so, i think whether virginity or not is nothing. i don't care.
but, when with me, then don't with others.
before or late, i don't care.
@TerryYuan (229)
• China
26 Nov 08
hi Iliaaz and seishirox, yes, u r right, it's not important to me.
i think it's nothing. and to tell the trueth, i have several experieces with several girls. so i am not a good boy, and shouldn't ask girl to be virginity.
@SeishiroX (1093)
• Philippines
26 Nov 08
Since you don't care, can we safely assume that the matter of whether a person is a virgin or not is not important to you? Cheers~
@beki710 (949)
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26 Nov 08
I don't believe in keeping viriginity until marriage, but that is my choice I respect other people if thay do decide to be a virgin until marriage. I was brought up to believe that I should lose my virginity to someone I cared about but I should not necessarily be married. As it was I lost my virginity when I was 18 to my boyfriend of the time and I was happy to do it that way. It really is the choice of the person.
@SeishiroX (1093)
• Philippines
26 Nov 08
Yup, that's right. We all should learn to respect the decisions of our fellow men especially about virginity since it's a very touchy issue in society.
@SeishiroX (1093)
• Philippines
26 Nov 08
On the contrary, I think her virginity is important to her. That's why she chose to give to someone she cared about and someone who cared about her.
@vinaykiran28 (5149)
• India
26 Nov 08
Well this is very personal and would not like to disclose here. I feel its subjective. I mean it all depends on the person. But it should not affect any relationship. Once married, I feel everyone should not try to find out the past of the partners. What do you say?
@vinaykiran28 (5149)
• India
26 Nov 08
What do you feel. You have not mentioned. As of me, I feel its not that important in this competitive world.
@jhenn22 (1242)
• Philippines
26 Nov 08
As much as possible it is better to keep it before marriage. I believe that it would be the greatest gift that you will give to your partner on your first night. Although some people nowadays don't mind virginity and yet we can not judge them for what they believe in.
Definitely for me, thats the greatest thing to keep and i believe that it is sacred which should be keep before marriage...
@karamellized (680)
• Philippines
26 Nov 08
I guess virginity should not be taken as a guage of whether you have to accept the person or not. There are reasons behind why one is no longer virgin, one could be she or he felt giving her body to the person whom he or she loves or worse she or he is a rape victim. 
@SeishiroX (1093)
• Philippines
26 Nov 08
I wouldn't mind if a lady is a virgin or not, as long as she lost it in favorable means. I won't mind if her previous boyfriend took her virginity as long as he was the only one to do it with her. If she lost her virginity and did it with a lot of other people afterwards, I would have second thought going into a serious relationship with that one.
Virginity is a choice. We should respect it if they lost it or retained it. Cheers~
@jmp_72 (246)
• Seychelles
26 Nov 08
Like you said everybody has different perspective about virginity. Some people because of their religious belief will save theirs until they get married, whereas some will just give it away to their love of their life at that time. I personally think which ever way it happens depends entirely on the person.
@Iliaaz (357)
• Malaysia
26 Nov 08
Hi jmp,
Thank you very much because you are willingly share your opinion about this discussion. Frankly speaking, I am still .....ehem ehem..... It was I want to keep it until I get married. Some people call it First night, It will be one of among the unforgettable moment in my life. More importantly, it will be only with my beloved person.
