I want to find a new lover to chase me. what do I do?

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I sometimes feel like having a torrid affair with a new lover. I do not want to go out and meet anyone and find someone, but i want someone to find me. It is too much of a hassel to go and meet someone new and then develop a friendship it is too time consuming and may not turn out the way I want. The person may not respond the way i want. Why shoud man always be the initiator. Do women also chase men and force themselves on them? I have not come across a single woman would would come up to me and say she wants me. If i initiate they are willing to go along, but never have i found any women initiating a friendship. Is it always the men who chase women? has any one found women really running after them?