Where did we go wrong? My newfound young friend/lover

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He is 22 years of age, very wise for his age, very intellectual and a beautiful man inside and out. He is a big man which is something I've never taken an interest in in a man until now. It started three months ago, he is part of my son's music group that I saw something special in him. Being heavy, young and at a young tender age I was attracted to him. I saw beyound the heaviness, age and maturity, I saw his heart and his mind for his young age. But something went wrong, instead of just being professional and acting my age of 47 years I went to his level, something that I never imagined in my wildest dreams in a man. We slept together, we were very intimate and what was suppose to be on a professional and business level because I gave my son and his group a room in my house to use as a studio became more. Never quite made it to a relationship stage but it was on. We enjoyed being together secretly and intimatley every time we could but the feelings began to fall. I can't speak on his part but on mine I was starting to fall too deeply for him. He in the end confessed his feelings to a point but could never bring his self to confess fully as I did. Now we can't even get along with each other without arguing with each other whether be over the business aspect of the studio or about him and I. I confessed to him the mistakes I made by sleeping with him and not treating him the way he should have been treated but I mistreated him in an aspect as to fighting the feelings I had gained for him. He claimed at one time he was ready to go for it all the whole thing but I had made some mistakes in my words to him which were of resentment not because he caused it but because we both allowed it to happen. Then there were the guilt feelings on my part of his age verses mine. What would people think? How would people react? How would my boys feel about this? So not only was I fighting the feelings I had for him but these other questions played a role in everything. We don't speak to each other now, we both avoid each other and I don't think he wants that but it's what's best for me so that I can move on but there's the issue of possibly running into him because he is at the studio most of the time on a daily basis. Where does it end or does it?