why is it that its so hard to understand what girls want?!?!?!

United States
November 8, 2006 12:37am CST
seriously, its hard to understand what they really want, they send different signals each time u talk to them. i just need a point of view from other people about what they think girls really want yep yep
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12 responses
@shonali (1286)
• India
8 Nov 06
girls - girls
its hard for u guys to understand us girls because very recently there was a research done on this.. and the scientist came up with the solution that when a girl talks for men its like music...and not words!! so they dont really understand what we tend to actually speak! thats why men cant understand women easily!!!!!!!!
• United States
8 Nov 06
ooooooooohhhhhhhh ok now i get it from a girls point of view, yep yep ill make sure to always hear what a girl has to say!! thanks for the tip
@SViswan (12051)
• India
8 Nov 06
I think it's just coz boys/men just don't listen carefully when a girl's talking to understand. Each girl is different and you HAVE to listen if you need to understand. I find guys tuning off what a girl is saying after a few minutes and assuming things about the issue. She's probably opening her heart out and explaining how she feels and there's the guy who thinks he understands after the first sentence and is already thinking of something else to talk about. So, there you go.....men don't listen well enough and that's why they don't understand.
@neeraj07 (577)
• India
10 Nov 06
Because U aren't God. As only god can understand a woman's mind.
@neeraj07 (577)
• India
10 Nov 06
Okay ! I think they want love and affection from a guy and to some extent most of them want their partner to have lot of money as well, but it can't be said for all of them.
• United States
10 Nov 06
well im not asking about god, im asking what is it that they girl wants from a guy.like what good qualities do they want in a guy
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• India
8 Nov 06
girls r dynmaic personality theri tyhinking n life style changes by the mood and by d cloick i guess v hav 2 adpat the more v do that the better for us..
• United States
10 Nov 06
yeah well girls are hard to understand and i dont kno why, so its a question im gonna ask myself my whole life lol yep yep
• United States
10 Nov 06
yeah well girls are hard to understand and i dont kno why, so its a question im gonna ask myself my whole life lol yep yep
• Philippines
10 Nov 06
What we girls want is just plain honesty, we want real people.
• United States
10 Nov 06
coo is good to hear from a girls point of view yep yep
• United States
10 Nov 06
coo is good to hear from a girls point of view yep yep
@caraj444 (1075)
• Canada
10 Nov 06
girls are into the process more where guys tend to be into the end result, if you tell a girl you dont understand what she wants or needs but youd like to try and find out, youll open up a dialog with her that will give her the chance to tell you, because were all different so we all want different things you have to treat each person as unique and truly be interested in their personal wants and needs
• United States
10 Nov 06
this response is awsome, that is so tru each person should be treated like one uniques person cuz every girl is unique in there own way. thanks this comment helped lots!
@caraj444 (1075)
• Canada
11 Nov 06
thank you, im glad it helped we all need help when it comes to relationships even when were in a good one
@perugu (5279)
• India
8 Nov 06
hi,in nature they are actually inhibit their views..thinkings in their minds..most vesatile..thats why 'It is easy to become king to entire world...but we can't expect what is there in a girl mind...
@Jshean20 (14348)
• Canada
10 Nov 06
It's probably so tough to understand what we want, because we change our mind constantly...we don't even know what we want :)
• India
8 Nov 06
Coz girls do not stick to a single demand they continuously keep changing their demands they are confused in them selves
• United Kingdom
8 Nov 06
Girls don't change their demands, we just add to them. :)
• United Kingdom
8 Nov 06
Girls don't change their demands, we just add to them. :)
• Singapore
8 Nov 06
LOL! I'm a woman, and i at times, I do not understand myself sometimes. before, during my PMS, i have this horrible mood swing period, i can be so happy one moment, then grouchy another moment hehe. but generally, what we want is TLC, for the man beside us to show concern, loving, sweet...that's all:)
• United States
8 Nov 06
yep yep well i guess i depends on the guys too, they gotta whats wrong with them and are like u PMSing at me or something, thanks for sharing yo!!!!
• United States
8 Nov 06
yep yep well i guess i depends on the guys too, they gotta whats wrong with them and are like u PMSing at me or something, thanks for sharing yo!!!!
@Donnyboy8 (786)
• United States
8 Nov 06
If you could find the answer to this you could be the King of the world.
• United States
8 Nov 06
oohhh man i would give my left nut to kno what a girl thinks for one day
@anju_113 (339)
8 Nov 06
cos they don't believe in natural beauty which is given by grace of god