why is it that its so hard to understand what girls want?!?!?!
By carnage
@carnage (35)
United States
12 responses
@shonali (1286)
• India
8 Nov 06
its hard for u guys to understand us girls because very recently there was a research done on this.. and the scientist came up with the solution that when a girl talks for men its like music...and not words!! so they dont really understand what we tend to actually speak! thats why men cant understand women easily!!!!!!!!
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
8 Nov 06
I think it's just coz boys/men just don't listen carefully when a girl's talking to understand.
Each girl is different and you HAVE to listen if you need to understand. I find guys tuning off what a girl is saying after a few minutes and assuming things about the issue. She's probably opening her heart out and explaining how she feels and there's the guy who thinks he understands after the first sentence and is already thinking of something else to talk about.
So, there you go.....men don't listen well enough and that's why they don't understand.
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@khattackdong (86)
• India
8 Nov 06
girls r dynmaic personality theri tyhinking n life style changes by the mood and by d cloick i guess v hav 2 adpat the more v do that the better for us..
@hotcherry_10 (265)
• Philippines
10 Nov 06
What we girls want is just plain honesty, we want real people.
@caraj444 (1075)
• Canada
10 Nov 06
girls are into the process more where guys tend to be into the end result, if you tell a girl you dont understand what she wants or needs but youd like to try and find out, youll open up a dialog with her that will give her the chance to tell you, because were all different so we all want different things you have to treat each person as unique and truly be interested in their personal wants and needs
@perugu (5279)
• India
8 Nov 06
hi,in nature they are actually inhibit their views..thinkings in their minds..most vesatile..thats why 'It is easy to become king to entire world...but we can't expect what is there in a girl mind...
@sonu13021980 (1214)
• India
8 Nov 06
Coz girls do not stick to a single demand they continuously keep changing their demands they are confused in them selves
@pumpkinjam (8763)
• United Kingdom
8 Nov 06
Girls don't change their demands, we just add to them. :)
@pumpkinjam (8763)
• United Kingdom
8 Nov 06
Girls don't change their demands, we just add to them. :)
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
8 Nov 06
LOL! I'm a woman, and i at times, I do not understand myself sometimes. before, during my PMS, i have this horrible mood swing period, i can be so happy one moment, then grouchy another moment hehe. but generally, what we want is TLC, for the man beside us to show concern, loving, sweet...that's all:)
@Donnyboy8 (786)
• United States
8 Nov 06
If you could find the answer to this you could be the King of the world.